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| Author: | kenken [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How not be desperate but also cruel? |
Hello Gamers! To make the story short, I will only tell the most important. There is a girl at my school that I have met and talked with. She put me on Snapchat(chatting-app) , and since she added me, we have been chatting a long time, but it is often just messages, where we write example "what have you been up to today?". At school I am alpha and everyone knows who I am. A couple of weeks ago, I was going out for a jogg so I said she could join me if she wanted, but she answered that she did not dare. Think it was a joke, but she joked just to have a excuse not to come. I have asked here before to visit me, and she always says yes but i never give here a time to come, cause i think she just says "yes" as a joke or just cause she thinks she don't need to come. I feel like a desperate after here, but when i act like i'm not desperate i feel mean. I have been acting like i don't care for a while now, and she's always asking me what i'm doing, and i just answer here, but never ask here back. But i think she will stop chatting if i never ask here back, so i don't know what to do. She just came out of a long time relationship, so i don't think she want's a boyfriend. |
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| Author: | Alsagei [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 12:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How not be desperate but also cruel? |
Interesting, but why would you feel mean if you don't act desperate, drop that feeling, that's not a proper mindset to be in. Also, I would think that she doesn't wants to go to your place because she doesn't wants to feel that vulnerable again, more connected again, you would remind her of the break-up she had, and maybe she's trying to avoid it, but that doesn't means she doesn't wants it. Women will put like a iron door you'll have to cross to enter to the room of the emotions, if you don't creatively cross that door, she won't let you, she does it because she knows once you in, she's vulnerable. So I wouldn't rush the things, trust me, but just let her know what your intentions are, subtly, softly, really carefully. |
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| Author: | HSP [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 9:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How not be desperate but also cruel? |
If you asked her to go somewhere with you and she says "yes" why aren't you following that up? You ask her but do not follow through with your intentions, going half-way will not get you anywhere. I do not know your story with her, but it sounds like you are over thinking it all. If she said "yes" that means she said "yes", which is your cue to continue to the logistics. If your worried about her not following through on the day of a meet up, you could try and go find an activity near where she lives so she can just step outside rather than get all dressed up and drive somewhere. |
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