I meet most women through online such as POF etc.
Problem is, though ive had some success, a lot of potentials just fade out. Id say about 60% of numbers i get i just end up deleting because they never go anywhere. In person things are fine with the women i do meet.
For example on POF we will be messaging for some time until i number close. Start talking on SPAM and they totally change, often ill say something they will just not reply until i message again to bump start the convo.
Then when it comes to arranging a date, often they show no interest.
Today i asked a girl when shes free, she said 'not today', i said, 'I can't today anyway, i wont be free until next week, what day is usually good for you?' To which she replied, 'Ohh, dont know'.
Responses like that just make me insta-delete their number without saying anything because its so irritating. Particularly when the night before we were talking for a long time on Badoo, light hearted stuff and lightly touched on meeting up.
Another one i was messaging on POF, number closed. She has a child though, but we said we could meet Tuesday as she has plenty of babysitters she can contact for when she goes out.
On the day when i asked if she was still up for it, she said she cant get a babysitter, and 'i'm not just saying that either' - her words.
So i said 'its cool, you can make it up to me
' No reply. A bit later i asked what shes up to today, she said shes going to a mates (im assuming taking the baby with her?), then i touched on meeting a different day, she said, 'yea another time maybe'.Just seems so flakey, why?
Its not all bad though, some girls i number close are just how they were when POF messaging through and through, then in person they are as funny/natural as they were via text, those are the ones that i F close every time without much effort. The last one being on Monday, she was just natural and responsive from the start
What gives? Maybe i could use some special text guides or something?