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| Author: | transforming [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 10:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do you demonstrate your values? |
How do you demonstrate your values? What stories do you tell? |
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| Author: | hugge [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 8:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you demonstrate your values? |
You avoid talking about yourself alltogether. Focus on her. It is inevitable though. She needs to get to know you better, so she will start asking questions about you. Focus on life experiences, and avoid facts. Avoid talking about anything that you think may demonstrate your value in any way, because that will probably lower it instead. Remember that it is better to say that you live in a tent in the woods (with irony, as if you don't give a shit about what she thinks) than that you live in a castle. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 10:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you demonstrate your values? |
It's pretty easy to demonstrate values when you have them. So I'd say if you lack exciting life experience or interesting hobbies then start doing something with your life ASAP. If you have then just casually mention them. Don't brag. Say you have a rock band. You don't go on like "I have such a kickass band all pussies are wet on our concert" That would be pretty arrogant. Instead go subtly with "Once when we gave a concert with our band the funniest shit happened..." and then continue with some fun story. And you can pretty much do that with everything else. Focus on the stories that happened while you were doing your hobby or when you were with your friends. I usually avoid telling stories about times we were wasted with my friends. One hillarious story or two in some cases could be acceptable but more of them will just backfire and the girl will think you're a raging alcoholic. As long as the stories are interesting and you have the capability to present it in a way that intrigues the girl then you can't really fuck up. But keep in mind that most other aspects of your game(body language, voice tone, flirting, escalation) has a lot more impact on the girl than the stories you're telling... Peace, In$tinct. |
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| Author: | IcingFate [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 7:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How do you demonstrate your values? |
You DHV by putting in emotional spikes in your stories. The best advice would be to start off with an actual story you have, and then maybe tweak it a bit to make it more exciting and add emotional spikes into them. But you want to build your inner self up to the point where you have a great basis for your stories. For example for me, i ride motorcycles, i do MMA, and i used to play football. I have a story about how i taught my little brother how to ride my motorcycle, how i was worried about teaching him because he is my little bro, and how after i showed him everything he took off like he knew what he was doing in the first place. Do i really ride bikes? Yeah. Did i really teach my bro how to ride it in a parking lot? Yes. Did he really take off on the bike and go 40/50mph in that parking lot before turning around, and telling me he learned how to drive it playing video games..? Haha no Try thinking of something interesting that happened in your life, and then add awesome twists and spikes into it |
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