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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 2:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Met a girl, hit it off, she flirts like crazy with me, keeps pestering me to tell her I like her, messages me 24/7, starts looking at my messages over my shoulder when I text, constantly asking me who i'm talking to, etc. She likes me, it's obvious. Called her out on it, she gave me some BS of how she's like that with everyone, called her out on that then she came through and admitted she liked me. Flirt with her a bit more and she gives me a free pass to kiss her whenever the hell I want. Meet up with her one of the days, go out and she gets all weird and distant with closed off body language. I say fuck it and try to kiss her. She says "No" and tells me to "work for it." After that I was just confused. I froze her out but she started freaking out getting people to message me to see if i'm alright(WTF?!). What in the fuck is going on?! |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 3:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Fuck her yet? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 3:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Nope. Not even made out with her. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 4:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
 Ahhhhh Sigh! Wouldn't life be so much easier, if you just shot them the 'fuck me' eye, then they just flop over on their back with their ankles behind their ears? She's obviously into you. She gave you a giant clue "She says "No" and tells me to "work for it." A little ASD (very little!). All your going to need is to with this on is, Isolate, then Escalate! |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 6:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Well, after that I zoned her. She kept messaging me but kept reminding me of where I put her. It's gotten so push-pull(Rather push a bit and pull A LOT) on her part that I don't think i'll be able to get her back from being zoned. I'm of half a mind to straight up walk away or try game her a bit by freezing her out for a couple of days. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 7:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Freezing out a girl that likes you seems counter productive. Let me ask you some questions? Does she seem to appear around you or in front of you “coincidentally” a lot, when in a social setting? Does she make herself available to you most of the time? Always answers your texts/calls. She also seems happy to hear from you? She remembers everything you said. Everything means from tiny things, like your favorite drink and favorite color, to BIG things, like your favorite sports team and political views. Does she find an excuse or text you a trivial bullshit question just to talk to you? Does her jealousy kick in to overdrive when you talk to other girls or when you mention about your ex girlfriends? Or change the subject? Or act ridiculous? Big one! She flirts with you and doesn't mind friendly, gentle touches from you? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
I know she likes me, or did. I can tick every single box there. After I zoned her she still kept the texting up and was always giving me proximity. She always brings up the "friend" thing and i'm fairly certain she got jealous with me talking to another chick, prompting her to start talking to someone I know. Thing is she's fucking weird. It feels like she'll just take and take without giving so if I let on I like her she'll just stay tight lipped. It's preschool shit if i'm to be honest and seems to be a lot of hassle. You're right, the chick is clearly into me. I played it wrong when I zoned her instead of being patient but the texts after I froze her out was just crazy for that stage. She's most likely bitter over it which is why she keeps dropping the "friend" line. I know i've got options here but I don't think i'll follow them through all that well. My opinion on options is to: 1. Just bail altogether and not bother with it. 2. Freeze her out so she craves my attention more, hopefully loosening up and being more open with the fact that she wants me. 3. Forget freezing her out, act normal, isolate and escalate. She is odd though. I don't know if the chick just wants the attention or if she really is just playing very fucking hard to get. That's what bothers me plus she's flirty in general(As am I). She made a point of letting me know i'm the guy she's so forward with but is she seeking attention? That's why I want to walk away. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
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3. Forget freezing her out, act normal, isolate and escalate.
Get Sexual ASAP!!!
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 9:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
I might do that after a short time out. She did something that warrants a freeze out. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing hard to get or just an attention seeker? |
Update on this... Got back into the usual routine with her, talking, texting, flirting, etc. A day or so she turns around and tells me she likes me and starts cornering me into a conversation about what i'd do with her. I got sexual, started talking about how I would kiss her and then bam... She shuts me down and says she wouldn't let that happen then flat out declares she's not interested in me at all and gets serious about it. Chick is just looking for attention? |
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