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| Author: | CatLicker [ Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Giving money, and being Funny. |
Hello theere guys ! Soo, I have two questions for you, experienced PUA's, right now. The first one is, there was this HB8 I wanted to approach few weeks ago, and then without even trying the opportunity offered itself. She came to the group of guys I hang out with, and asked if anyone had some money on him he can give ( nothing big, probably for the bus ) It seemd like the perfect opportunity, giving her the money, and striking a conversation from there, and as I was proceeding I had one of those " Wait a minute " moments, I tought that, this move would be soo Beta, OR, it would really DHV me. Like, it's one or the another, and since I hadn't have time to think about it, I just didn't. So I'm not asking just for this girl, but, generally, do you think it's Beta to give girls money ? My second issue is, anywhere I go, people compliment me that I'm really funny, I'm slightly aware of that, and it bugged me these last days. I'm gaming another 2 girls, and I think that it's all that keeps them around. Like, I'm a " Pump up " for their mood whenever they feel low, and when they're cheered, they just don't talk. What do you think about that ? Could something like this happen ? Thanks ! |
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| Author: | ZealousR [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 12:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving money, and being Funny. |
What kind of funny? Goofy, witty or what? |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving money, and being Funny. |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving money, and being Funny. |
Situation 1 - with a smile "what's in it for me?" Make her work for it, tease her about being broke, flirt a bit. THEN, if you like her and she is compliant and seems attracted to you, LOAN her the money and say "you can pay me back at drinks on xday." Situation 2 - you are right. Being funny isn't actually attractive to girls. At least not anywhere near as much as what society says. Girls don't want funny guys, they want guys that are confident and create sexual tension that makes them giggle. The main use of "humour" is as a social lubricant that let's you escalate easier. |
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| Author: | CatLicker [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 7:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving money, and being Funny. |
Quote: What kind of funny? Goofy, witty or what?
A nice amount of my humour is cocky funny, and a fair share of self-depricating humour ( I don't take it soo far that it starts DLVing me )Quote: Situation 2 - you are right. Being funny isn't actually attractive to girls. At least not anywhere near as much as what society says. Girls don't want funny guys, they want guys that are confident and create sexual tension that makes them giggle. The main use of "humour" is as a social lubricant that let's you escalate easier.
Yeaah I realized that. Girls call you after that just to be like "Dance, monkey.." Even though I think some girls have Humour as a big criteria with confidence, status and creating sexual tension on the side ( My ex-Girlfriend included )And I really liked your approach for Situation 1. Thanks man ! |
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