4 months ago, I met this girl at work and we got on great, I could feel the chemistry between us. We ended up arranging to play some pool. The date didn't go great, I used not a single piece of kino, and I didn't kiss close. She was also on her phone alot of the time which was off-putting and I didn't really feel the chemistry that day. That was the last time I saw her, as soon after she moved abroad to study for a year.

She is abroad this year, and I am studying abroad next year, this makes any chance of a relationship seem highly impractical. Since this pool date, we have texted less once every month for about an 1 hour. My text game is alright, I have made a conscious effort to never come off as needy or desperate, I am witty and carry good energy, but I have never said anything sexually suggestive. At this stage she probably thinks I am just a friend after I used no kino, no sexually escalation and the overall impracticality of being in different countries and not being able to date anyway.

About a week ago, she messaged me on facebook asking how I was, and from there I suggested we hang out on her weeks return to the country, which is coming up in a months time, which she agreed to.

So here I am, I don't know what my game plan should be from here on. My day 2 was very poor, but I want to kiss close her on day 3. The amount of remaining meetups seem slim, as for the next 2 years we are far apart from each other so its seems irrational to try and get into a relationship, and therefore she is likely just looking to be friends. Do you suggest I just go for it, try my best to kino and kiss close on day 3 and risk losing her, or do I just stay friend like and see if we can maximise meet ups in the future?

I am inexperience with girls, so I guess I also need to factor in, which option will give me the strongest experience to help me in the future with girls and dating. P.s. I have only kissed a girl once before. Thanks for your help.