*i don't know if this is the right place to put this post. just notify me if it's wrong.*
There's this girl. I've been with her for 4 months now. Let me just describe her first. She is a damn walking contradiction, she would give so many IOI's and she would tell me she likes me then after 2 hours, she would be like "oh don't you dare call me babe." She is a tough woman and lives by cultural laws, like she believes in "My first boyfriend should be my last" and she does not experience any risky adventures in her life until she met me. But that's the problem, she is very fearful of the consequences. She'll be like "It is okay if won't experience adventures as long as I won't get hurt" Also, she wants to be the one in control. She does so many takeaways, hides her weak emotions and gives so many baits. Should I submit to her "Alphaness" or if not , how could I regain my frame? 2nd, what should I do to help her let go of her fears so she could just "lose control"? And lastly, how should I react if she's having those contradictions?
thank you in advance.
