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Author:  tgo555 [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 8:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Doubt with shy girl
I'm new to this PUA thing, but I met this shy girl at a language school and she kept giving me IOIs, like looking into the eyes, smiling at everything I say etc.
One day I arrived and she was already there talking to another girl about college and she mentioned a boyfriend that she has never mentioned before and kept giving me IOIs. That day the class was about relationships and I said that the ideal girlfriend has to have a good sense of humor and out of the blue she says she has a great one.
My question is: Was the boyfriend thing a shit test?

Thanks in advance.
Author:  In$tinct [ Sun Sep 29, 2013 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
You can not know, but if you want anything from this girl you will treat it like a shit test. Her boyfriend is her problem not yours, you do not care about the bf, you care about the girl, so don't bother with that shit.
Author:  jamesd31 [ Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
Agreed with In$tinct. I had an argument on Friday with a girl/friend of mine when I was about to go pick up this girl at the bar who she knew; friend kept saying she has a "big boyfriend" and bla bla bla, I told her I really dont care, etc.

I honestly don't. If you like hockey, or even soccer, I always use this analogy: "Just because there is a goalie, doesn't mean you cannot score a goal." My theory with boyfriends is this, if she finds you are a better match for her than her current boyfriend, everyone is happy (obviously not the boyfriend) but you guys were "more meant to be."

If she truly is in love, and the chemistry isn't between you two, then that is that and worst case scenario, is you come out with a friend; and girl/friends are the best usually, since they can typically do social proofing for you automatically by DHVing and introducing you to her other girl/friends.

So yes, just act like it is a shit test and play it off as if you honestly don't care.
Author:  tgo555 [ Fri Oct 04, 2013 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
Thanks for the advices guys, but here is another question.
She won't stop staring at me while she thinks I'm not seeing, so yesterday I tried to talk to her, just made very simple question while going down the stairs:
Me: What are the units to study for the exam, you know?
She looks down an say: 1 and 2 (in a really cold way)
Me: Ok thanks, but what is the content of these units, you know?
She looks down again and say: I don't know gotta open the book and see (again really cold)
Me: Ok thanks again

Then I let her have some space and backed away

With the little information I had I found her facebook page and I thought maybe if I add her she'll feel more comfortable talking through facebook instead of face to face.
I'm afraid that if I add her w/o asking her facebook page to her before, she'll feel like I'm stalking her. Which is not what's happening BTW.

What do you guys think?
Author:  In$tinct [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 10:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
Yeah it's just the perfect way to fuck up, by talking to her on fb instead of face-to face. Don't do that pussy thing. She might have been busy, had other things on mind etc. Play it off cool, like it didn't matter and next time you strike up a convo try to be at least remotely interesting...
Author:  GamesSN [ Mon Oct 07, 2013 11:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
Instinct is giving some solid advice man.

Just find common ground and maybe she'll open up a bit more but i'm more interested in how she's shy. Is she just shy around you or shy in general(Won't talk to guys and keeps to herself a lot)? Also what nationality is she? You said language school. We kind of have them over here but they're more like free meet ups for others to improve their language skills. Is there a language barrier there or are you both studying a specific language and share a native language?

Honestly though, fuck shy girls. They're generally a pain in the ass. Had my fair share of them and they've ended up being crazy.
Author:  tgo555 [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 3:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
GamesSN, we are both from Brazil and she's just shy around me, she keeps looking at me from a distance and when I look back she looks away. I'm pretty sure she was just nervous the other day, but it may also be the combination of nervousness and the fact I didn't have a great subject (had little aa, that was the only thing that could thought at the time), I'm seeing her again today, we have a exam. The thing is we don't have a lot of time to chat, so I need to phone close her fast. I feel she likes me, just wanna get this done asap :)
Maybe I should let her know in a subtle way that I'm aware that she likes me and she can drop that shy thing.
Author:  GamesSN [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Doubt with shy girl
You're Brazilian. Every single Brazilian guy i've met has been forward, hands on and had massive balls. Brazilian women i've scored just want a man to be a man and expect a man to essentially grab them and be physical with them. Geeze man, get with your culture already. Even fat fuckers grab Brazilian women all the time.

Having said that, in Europe Brazilian women tend to hold European men in higher esteem than they do Brazilian men, most likely due to the difference in courtship and how conservative we are in Western/Central Europe.

Grow a pair man, start talking to her. If she gets all shy and gives you one word answers just call her out on it, have the balls to do that much. Say "Fuck, you're really god damn boring you know that?" Then just joke with her and be c/f. She'll become comfortable around you then you just say "I gotta go. Put your number in my phone and we'll hang out some time."

Your problem is you've got no balls and it's obviously showing. She's Brazilian and Brazilian women respect a man who sees what he wants and goes for it. They are, however, curious about the more reserved guys.
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