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Author:  Sluggler [ Mon Sep 09, 2013 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  The Truth why Most Guys Dont Get Laid
The Truth Why Most Guys Don't Get Laid
Yo, hope you all had a great weekend full of ACTION.

Today i want to talk about a "touchy" topic, of why most guys don't get laid.


The number 1 reason I think most guys don't get laid, is because...They are TRYING to get laid.

Now, when i say trying, i am not referring to trying to pull, but i am referring to just trying to fuck the girl with minimum investment. Coming from a frame of just wanting to fuck.

If that's the case, you should just hire a hooker...

This is the worst frame i think you can possibly be in since it is a frame of TAKING rather than giving. The universe is designed to GIVE and to share.

Share positive emotions with the girl.
Give her fun and a good time.
Dance with her.
Introduce her to your friends.
Then escalate.
Talk about things she likes or shared interest.
Be carefree.
Escalate more.
Change venues.
Don't be needy and seeking validation or a certain reaction.
Don't qualify yourself, let her qualify herself to you.
You are enough.
Make out with her.
And ultimately pull her.(Or get her number and set up a day-2)

I think most guys fall into the frame of what society teaches us:

Minimum Input, And Expect Maximum output.

Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way. Give. When i am going up to girls when i go out, i am coming from a frame of legitimate interest. Giving her fun. Dancing with her. Saying funny shit. Being self-amused. Ultimately not just TRYING to just get laid. Most of the times i can care less about fucking a girl the same night. I would rather see her the next day for a day two or something. But that's just me. To each his own.

(http://theattractiveu.blogspot.com/2013 ... -laid.html)

For more on this topic and the video blog to go along with it, check out my website in my signature!

Later!
Author:  coolguy2013 [ Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: The Truth why Most Guys Dont Get Laid
I agree that if you try too hard, you set off a vibe to women that you are a desperate horndog. Your desperate ness is only bad because it implies something is probably wrong with you and that is why you don't get any pussy in general, hence you are probably desperate. I also agree that this is probably one of the largest reasons why guys don't get laid. On the other hand, I think the other large reason is men not TRYING to even meet a girl due to shyness, confidence issues, and self-doubt. They are over-thinking it and get anxious, so end up not even talking to women.
Author:  Sluggler [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: The Truth why Most Guys Dont Get Laid
Quote:
I agree that if you try too hard, you set off a vibe to women that you are a desperate horndog. Your desperate ness is only bad because it implies something is probably wrong with you and that is why you don't get any pussy in general, hence you are probably desperate. I also agree that this is probably one of the largest reasons why guys don't get laid. On the other hand, I think the other large reason is men not TRYING to even meet a girl due to shyness, confidence issues, and self-doubt. They are over-thinking it and get anxious, so end up not even talking to women.

I agree. Well said. I just posted another video on my blog where i dissect this even further. Check it out.
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