After my relationship ended some months ago, I realized I had far too few women in my social circle. I mostly have male friends, but I genuinly like to be around girls aswell.
I have been working on myself for some time now, and it has really improved my game. I'm still at a pretty novice stage, but I'm taking steps and constantly trying to push my comfort zone.
I have a rule that I should take the hardest way out of a social interaction (meaning I'll start talking to a girl close to me instead of not doing it etc.).
So last day I was hanging around in the city and a girl walked past me. I stood next to some information thingy that she tried to read, but I kinda felt like she was checking me out at the same time.
We started talking. I got the feeling that she felt it was kinda funny-weird, because I talked to her like it was the most normal thing in the world. Throughout the conversation I felt I could see attraction in her eyes, so I had the confidence to move on and not end it straight away. After some time we had to part and she was holding eye contact when walking away, as if she didn't really want to.
To get back on subject, what would be a natural way to get more in touch with this girl? Should I have asked for her phonenumber? I was proud of myself too have pushed my comfort zone by talking to a complete stranger and I really got the feeling that the girl had a good experience. So I kinda didn't want to ruin the whole interaction by becoming needy.
But I need to start weaving more females into my life. Not just to get laid, I don't stress on that too much as I know it will come in due time, but for the friendships and training.
Maybe someone have been in a similar situation in their life and have some tips? How would you go about getting a phonenumber in this situation or a similar one? Or should I have asked for her Facebook, in that case how? How do I get more women in my life?
Kinda long post I know. I'm very excited about the whole community, because it's so good to see progress after putting in the work. This is kinda sub-question but, I have been working mostly on myself: Clothes, health, fitness, social skills, my career, plans, goals etc etc. I'm still not very good at social media, Facebook in perticular. When is it socially accepted to add people? How do I build a good profile? How do I potray the great me in real life onto this media? Does anyone have any guidelines or like a guide I can read to get up to pair on this stuff?
Thank you for reading my post and maybe answering some of my questions
