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Author:  transforming [ Fri Aug 02, 2013 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
When we meet a girl online, scientifically, we should not talk about sex with her before meeting her in real life, right? Why?
Author:  Obi [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 7:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
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When we meet a girl online, scientifically, we should not talk about sex with her before meeting her in real life, right? Why?
scientifically? can you get me the study conducted on that?

You can talk about it whenever you want, it just depends on the dynamic you have setup and the type of girl she is. Plenty of the women on online dating services are also on there because they just want to fuck and nothing more.

in other words... screen and you'll find out the type of girl she is.
Author:  worldrunner [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 1:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
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You can talk about it whenever you want, it just depends on the dynamic you have setup and the type of girl she is. Plenty of the women on online dating services are also on there because they just want to fuck and nothing more.
with the difference that they are not there just to fuck anybody because, they can fuck anybody... They are specifically looking for a guy with certain characteristics and once they find him, they'll let him know.

And in case they are just looking to fuck any guy, no matter how ugly they are they can easily post their profiles in an escort website and earn some good money while fucking any guy.

Having said that as far as I know there is no scientific study stating that we should not talk about sex to girls before meeting them in real life. It is up to you to talk about whatever you want and she to reply to whatever you talk about.
Author:  Fireboy [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
When you say scientific I think you mean experience from gurus backs this up. In that case as a GENERAL rule you'd be right. Women are programmed scientifically and if not so much that way culturally to seek out a partner who will be with them in a long term sense.

What happens when you talk about sex initially is that she feels thats the only reason you want her for. (Initially it is) As a general rule, get her attention and have her interested in you. She should start to ask you questions. From the questions she ask move into a conversation about her interest to get a rapport with her. When she's comfortable find out some personal information about her like her goals, hopes, dreams, fears etc. It's really important here to make her feel comfortable in her world view and give her the impression you agree with her and see things her way.

Ok, from here.. Going into sex talk can be a really good thing. There's a rule that "If she'll talk about it with you she'll do it with you. To do this get into a conversation about what's important to her in a relationship and then more specifically about guys. Then bring up what she likes physically most.

Even still proceed with caution here because going into sex too early can really push you back. You sound new. Keep talking to women and keep asking questions. All questions are good questions.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 10:15 pm ]
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Calibration is the key.

I lost a lot of girls for being too sexualised before meet. You can risk frying the attraction.

However, there is a certain type of girl that is down with it.

Make sure you aware of the risks.
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Aug 12, 2013 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
Eh, it doesn't matter that much, but in general, there shouldn't be so much chatting to begin with before meeting. Your profile does the attraction, not your chatting, at least in general. There are obvious exceptions, but generally, your online convos shouldn't be getting that far before a meeting.
Author:  transforming [ Wed Aug 14, 2013 7:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why should sex talk be avoided before seduction stage
I had an illusion, I always thought that I might get sex by chatting about sex with a female. I didn't know why I harbored that illusion.
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