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| Author: | hypothalamus [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 10:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Acted too needy ... anything I can do? |
Long story short: We went to a date, she liked it and was very happy about it, after that we met once and smsed few times and it was still ok. After that we have college holidays which means we won't see each other for two months (we live 200 km away). So I thought it would be good to send her a thoughtful email, something like a postcard but with a little more text, I was acting/texting casually and she emailed me back that it was very nice from me and so on. One problem: I used word 'date' to which she replied that she doesn't want a boyfriend and isn't searching for one and that she doesn't want any expectations. So I wrote back and I was acting a little bit too interested (too many questions for her, like what you're doing etc., very long mail in fact), but also told her that I'm ok with it if we're just friends (in this context it probably sounded more afc/wussy) and she didn't replied me back (it's a week already, so I don't think she will). Can I do anything else besides 'doing nothing and searching for other women'? Is it only option not to communicate or what? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 11:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Acted too needy ... anything I can do? |
Sounds like you clobbered it with needy Bro. Being 'sweet' once in a while... sure, it lets her know your not an asshole. She dug it a little, you got a response...cool. But being 'sweet to a girl is a little like adding sugar to a recipe. It made it taste good, a positive response... So you thought ...Hmmmm a teaspoon of sugar got me a positive response... I'll dump 5 or 10 cups of that yummy shit in there and see how that works! It never works, it ruins it. Just chill it out for a while with her. Is there anything you can do? Yes most definitely LEARN! You learned, that didn't work. DON'T do it to the NEXT girl. Go back out there and get a new one...or ten. Look at it this way, you attracted this one, SO you did something right in the beginning. Remember what it was and go again! |
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