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| Author: | JackOfNoTrades [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Attraction and holding it |
Just a quick note I think we could all learn from. I was sitting with a girl in a club and was doing the slow voice down, look at lips and BOOM that sexual tension spike. Then I leaned in and said "Can I be direct? *She nods* I really want to kiss you* *We Kiss*. I haven't heard from her since. I think the main problem is one spike is good enough for a kiss close but not enough for the F close. I'm thinking you got to hit multiple spikes before you do something sexual. Not like 10 or 12 but 2 or 3. Of different types too. Anything to add gentlemen? - Jack |
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| Author: | Pattern [ Wed Aug 07, 2013 4:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
What works for me is when you kiss a girl, i start to use some kino. Going through her hair, touche the lower part of her back, the sides of her neck. But everything is done very controlled, sensual and light. You don't want to force your face into hers, or really push your hands on her back. Just gently move your hands around her when you kiss, but try not to touch her breasts or between the legs. You need to build it up to be able to get there. Another good one, is kissing a girl in her neck of nibble a bit on her ear. They will get goosebumbs everytime you do that. and of course don't forget Style's push/pull technique. take two steps forward and then one back. So while kissing, touch her back gently and softly. then hold your face a little back. She'll think she did something wrong because you've stopped kissing. Just look into her eyes and gently smile playfully. 9 out 10 times she'll start kissing you after that. Then you can build forward again. that's the stuff that works for me |
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| Author: | JackOfNoTrades [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 9:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
Hey Pattern, I'll give it a try! - Jack |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Mon Aug 12, 2013 12:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
The kiss is just an escalation point, you have to dial it up for there. Just get more and more sexual. Pull her closer, hands though hair, down her back, grab her ass, hands up legs, etcetera. Slowly dial it up. And as commented above push-pull a bit, go in for a bit then "come up for air" for a minute or two, then back in. You can't get girls consistently by "making moves" you have to actually be an attractive guy to get consistent results. Becoming that guy takes a lot of failure (you will get success too) but its worth it! |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Mon Aug 19, 2013 12:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
The kiss is, as previously, just a guideline, not an actual big move. Look at it like this: Guy and girl like each other. They hang out. They talk, laugh, kiss, hang out, laugh more, talk, kiss more, trust each other, like each other more, hang out more, kiss, fuck, hang out more, meet friends, etc. There is so much more than just kissing and fucking - these are just checkpoints you reach, but so is talking to her, holding her hand, getting to know her more deeply, etc. You don't have to hold attraction, just be. You are enough, and if she doesn't see it then it's her fault. |
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| Author: | JackOfNoTrades [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
If I'm being completely honest holding the attraction is more for me, so I don't get bored. However it's all amazing advice. - Jack |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 12:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Attraction and holding it |
There is this whole idea in the community that you need to create attraction and hold it. This is not true. What you do is you be your fun self and see which girls like you for you. Out of these girls you can pick which one you like best. If you are aiming for crsating attraction and holding it you are in a wrong mindset, one that says you have to do certain things in order to attract a girl. This tells me that you don't think you alone are enough. This in turns tells me that you don't feel like you're worthy of her by just being yourself. When really you are enough. Most guys think they are not enough, but they are. Nothing special to say or do, just see if you two vibe together and take it from there. With that mindset also comes a much more relaxed way of speaking and interacting. Because you are not trying to do anything to make her like you, but really just being yourself and seeing if she likes you for you. If yes then great, if no then onto the next. |
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