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Author:  Reywal [ Sun Jul 21, 2013 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Third date but it's not going further online...

Hey!

Few days ago I met a girl at work. At the beginning, she seem very uninterested. Why so? Well, after I added her on Facebook, she almost hadn't answered me.

Yesterday was the third time I have met her so far (she's new in this city [job mutation]). We build a lot of confo/kino and I'm pretty sure that if I hadn't allowed my emotions didacting me how to behave, I could have gone further.

The point of my message is concerning the same problem than before. When we are online on Fb, even if yesterday she was very attracted to me, she's almost never answering me or starting a conversation ... The only difference; this morning she liked one of my picture on Facebook but not more than that.

I don't want to seem chassing her too much, so I thought ignoring her for awhile could help to make her chasing me. How can I handle this situation before seeming too needy? And then, when should I propose her to meet me again?

Thanks a lot! :wink:

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Third date but it's not going further online...

Quote:
Hey!

Few days ago I met a girl at work. At the beginning, she seem very uninterested. Why so? Well, after I added her on Facebook, she almost hadn't answered me.

Yesterday was the third time I have met her so far (she's new in this city [job mutation]). We build a lot of confo/kino and I'm pretty sure that if I hadn't allowed my emotions didacting me how to behave, I could have gone further.

The point of my message is concerning the same problem than before. When we are online on Fb, even if yesterday she was very attracted to me, she's almost never answering me or starting a conversation ... The only difference; this morning she liked one of my picture on Facebook but not more than that.

I don't want to seem chassing her too much, so I thought ignoring her for awhile could help to make her chasing me. How can I handle this situation before seeming too needy? And then, when should I propose her to meet me again?

Thanks a lot! :wink:
Dude... she doesn't like you. Get over it... Not everyone is going to like you.

Author:  TRiles [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Third date but it's not going further online...

I can't necessarily agree that she doesn't like you, but it's distinctly possible. I CAN say, you're expecting too much out of her. Do you need to talk her all the time?

It looks like your problem is that you're either trying to prove yourself OR you're trying too hard to keep her interest. Don't try to talk with her 24/7, no one likes that, you shouldn't either, at least not if you're picking up pua.

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