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| Author: | jimbo111 [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 6:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Going out tonight: Help on openers to conversation |
Hi guys, Going out tonight. I've got a few openers that I've nailed down, but haven't had time to work on my mid-game/conversation thing. Can you give me some advice before I head out. Oviously don't want to resort to the whole "what do you do for a living" type boring questions. Do I basically need to talk about myself for like 3 mins after opening? I think I need some pointers on switching to mid-game and then over to getting the number. Thanks, guys! 
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| Author: | ra1n [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 6:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out tonight: Help on openers to conversation |
For the mid game, you could go the route of performing personality tests, which I think are really cool and girls find really exciting. But that won't really work for you since you have a time constraint. So I would just say ask deep questions like "Where are you from?" (you can work with this by using subsequent questions about childhood), "What are you passionate about?", and "How do you know each other?" (if the target is in a group). Remember to validate her stories and answers by saying stuff like "No way!" and "That's awesome!". Women seek validation, so you giving it to them will make them talk on and it builds a sense of comfort. But keep in mind that a conversation is a two-way street. If you run out of things to say, remain calm through that awkward pause, and try to put the pressure on her to restart the conversation by giving her an "I'm waiting" look. (Advice courtesy of Nick Sparks) As for the number closes, what you can do is put a time constraint on yourself by saying something along the lines of "I can't stay for long because I have to meet up with some friends". Once you say this, ask how you two can meet again (don't explicitly mention her number), and chances are she'll give you her number. (Advice courtesy of Neil Strauss' The Game) |
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| Author: | jimbo111 [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 3:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out tonight: Help on openers to conversation |
Yes, I agree it's a two way street but sometime it feels like you have to do all the entertaining! Last night was good - getting much better at opening and carrying over the conversation. Still need to work on mid-game and closing. It is good advice to slow down when speaking? I can speak quickly, purely because I think quickly. |
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| Author: | zwiggelbig [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 1:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out tonight: Help on openers to conversation |
Hey I went out this weekend. I got to open a few girls. But after that I just ask those simple qestions like where are you from? And you on bicicly, what you do but I manage to lose all my attrection always after the opener cozz I'm boring after that. And thinks that mystery does with all the hugging and negging that works alot better if you are tall and look so confident |
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| Author: | Pylott [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 4:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Going out tonight: Help on openers to conversation |
Don't worry about all the basic stuff. She will tell you where she is from and what she does through conversation. Focus more on her personality, give her insights into what kind of girls you like. When she says she does those things, push her away a little, then follow it with a pull. (Stop! You can't make me like you like that etc.). Just continue with giving her a little insight into your mind, how you feel about certain things. This will frame a much more sexual/fun conversation and when she starts giving info about her life -- she is buildinng comfort so get a little more serious and make sure to hold eye contact. Make her look away first. Throw in a few sarcastic/funny remarks about her life. Tell stories that pop into your head when she brings up certain topics. The rest will handle itself! |
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