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Author:  Thessius [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 8:24 pm ]
Post subject:  What do I do when this happens? Pattern complaining

Basically, this is the case when I know the girl and I enter a conversation with her. We can escalate to flirtatious topics but then she'll throw out little complaints like "my stomach hurts". I can tell it's BS and usually I ignore it and lead the convo. I just want your opinions on how y'all react to this..

Thanks!

-Thesius

Author:  TheGreatest [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 7:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What do I do when this happens? Pattern complaining

I usually say something to lead for to flirtacious conversation or an obvious attraction.
Like "That's what happens when you work out."
Or like "Well sometimes looking good hurts"

She might be like "Whaatt?"
Then I'd say something like "Wait...You go to the gym to get your body to look like that right?"

And etc.
You know just let it feel natural.
Good luck!

Author:  UmpteenDee [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What do I do when this happens? Pattern complaining

She's trying to sidetrack the conversation into something more plain because she feels her attraction going off. Don't let her be the one to lead the interaction and do that. What you should do is use her attempt to bring energy down to turn it into a flirt:

"my stomach hurts"

"you're just saying that because you know I give the best stomach massages and you want one"

then after her reaction, say something more logical that brings the energy down, that way she realizes you're socially calibrated and can lead an interaction.

Say something even as bland as talking about the weather, "god I love days with weather like this"

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