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| Author: | rndbroom [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Online Dating Question |
I used an opener that I seen on the forum. "OMG, you look like the type of girl, that needs ages to get ready" I got a reply that said "Why do you think that?" I didn't want to just say "Because you're beautiful." I think that is kind of boring, and won't lead into conversation, just a Thank you or nothing at all. So, can you guys help me out with my next line? |
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| Author: | Preston87 [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
Oof.. this is not an ideal start. In the future, I would avoid OMG in caps at all costs- it just doesn't drip of alpha male. Additionally, it sets up a lot of expectation for whatever you're about to type next, and she will likely be disappointed. Keep it low-key and casual, make it seem like you aren't overly affected by her beauty but intrigued by her for Reason X. We don't know anything about the girl, so maybe pull something from her profile or her pictures to make it specific to her, and respond with that, I think. |
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| Author: | rndbroom [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 4:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
This one girl responded like a bitch! LOl She said Thank you for taking the time to tell me that useful opinion. Lol. What do I say to her? |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
I have found openers that show you read their profile are much better than this. This is a type of copy paste opener that is only really useful if you are trying to blast a bunch of women. Believe it or not, "Hey, how's it going" is an even easier one to use. |
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| Author: | rndbroom [ Wed Jun 19, 2013 4:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
TheFury, do you mind sharing those openers or giving an example? |
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| Author: | bamthebomb [ Thu Jun 20, 2013 6:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
"OMG, you look like the type of girl, that needs ages to get ready" i use this exact one and respond ratio is about. me: OMG, you look like the type of girl, that needs ages to get ready! her: If you based yor opinion that i need ages on a single photo, than you must be superficial. (i don't even care what she said, she took the time to answer, so i was interesting. now be carefull not to go in a neg contest with her) me:aaaaa, i didn't want to make you mad... i don't think i made myself clear. i think you are cute and every detail must be perfect, that must take a long time. Superficial? -lol- only you and my Gf ever told me that... i may be and i don't apologise for that, i'm more of an asshole than superficial. am i really superficial (or like that)? and from now on i go with some openers like what do you tink about tattoos? or, who do you think lie more, man or woman? This works for me, not 100%, arround 70% so is ok. Works better if you have some photos with you and a HB, just to make her an example "look at my photo and look at that girl, she looks ok but, every time i go out with her she is not ready, she makes me wait at least 20 min. After that, am i still superficial?" and that i don't use "Superficial? -lol- only you and my Gf ever told me that... i may be and i don't apologise for that, i'm more of an asshole than superficial" because i just made me preselected. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Thu Jun 20, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Online Dating Question |
Quote: TheFury, do you mind sharing those openers or giving an example?
Well, they depend on what is in her profile. But, for example.. girl mentions windsurfing... So.. are you on a professional windsurfing team? Have any windsurfing competitions this week?  Just stuff like that. |
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