PUA Forum :: Help! Girl has gone psycho on me

I went on a date with a girl last night and it went extremely well (we were together for hours and she invited me back to her place at the end). Today she has done a complete 180 on me, and send me a 5 message text telling me how it was the most terrible, cheap date she has ever been on (we went to a park and watched the sun set)

My response: "I really took the time to find a place for us to go that I thought would be special and low pressure. You appeared to enjoy yourself last night so I don't really know what changed. I am sorry about the mosquito bites, but calling me a cheap date is incredibly rude and hurtful - you cannot talk to me like that"

To which she responds: "You were an extremely cheap date. Had you checked on google you would have found much better spots. I can talk to you how I choose. You are cheap!"

I still want this girl but she is being a complete bitch. How do I respond to this? I know I cannot let her walk over me but at the same time if I come back with a strongly worded enough reply she is just gonna leave. Need help finding a good balance.

Thanks!

you probably were a cheap date. mystery method is great, but being a cheap date, not paying , etc. is retarded and just makes you look like a cheap dbag.

I thought I was reading some really stupid crap in the OP's post until I read this one:

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you probably were a cheap date. mystery method is great, but being a cheap date, not paying , etc. is retarded and just makes you look like a cheap dbag.

What in the holy fuck? TheFury, you are by far the most retarded user on this forum. I would find a meme or picture to describe your level of retardation, but I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to find anything to said level.

First of all, OP... It wasn't a cheap date. A walk and watching the sunset will always beat a fancy dinner or movie. Besides being more romantic, it helps you escalate and ramp up attraction.

Second of all, why would you still want to be with her? You put effort into finding a good date, and you gave her your time. And that's the thank she has for you? That's her telling you to fuck off. In reality, you clearly failed to create attraction. Had you taken her on the same date and played your cards right, she wouldn't have been telling you all that crap.

Betamax: Because she is quite attractive. Could have done better, but I did play my cards reasonably well.

Now she's back to normal. She wants me to come back to her place again after our next date which is a good thing I guess?? She lives with her mom tho so it's kinda awkward

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Betamax: Because she is quite attractive. Could have done better, but I did play my cards reasonably well.

So? What about you? Name me 10 things you find attractive about yourself (credit to Majik)... Doesn't have to be looks. Do not ever lower yourself to a girl. You're only as shitty as you say you are. If you think you're big, then you'll be big.

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Now she's back to normal. She wants me to come back to her place again after our next date which is a good thing I guess?? She lives with her mom tho so it's kinda awkward

Yeah, psycho much? But then again, that's the quality to expect from online girls. Piece of advice: don't ever fall for this girl or you're in for nightmare. Fuck her and be done with her.

Author:	Lostinthecrowd [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 8:03 pm ]
Post subject:	Help! Girl has gone psycho on me
I went on a date with a girl last night and it went extremely well (we were together for hours and she invited me back to her place at the end). Today she has done a complete 180 on me, and send me a 5 message text telling me how it was the most terrible, cheap date she has ever been on (we went to a park and watched the sun set) My response: "I really took the time to find a place for us to go that I thought would be special and low pressure. You appeared to enjoy yourself last night so I don't really know what changed. I am sorry about the mosquito bites, but calling me a cheap date is incredibly rude and hurtful - you cannot talk to me like that" To which she responds: "You were an extremely cheap date. Had you checked on google you would have found much better spots. I can talk to you how I choose. You are cheap!" I still want this girl but she is being a complete bitch. How do I respond to this? I know I cannot let her walk over me but at the same time if I come back with a strongly worded enough reply she is just gonna leave. Need help finding a good balance. Thanks!

Author:	TheFury [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 2:29 pm ]
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Quote: I went on a date with a girl last night and it went extremely well (we were together for hours and she invited me back to her place at the end). Today she has done a complete 180 on me, and send me a 5 message text telling me how it was the most terrible, cheap date she has ever been on (we went to a park and watched the sun set) My response: "I really took the time to find a place for us to go that I thought would be special and low pressure. You appeared to enjoy yourself last night so I don't really know what changed. I am sorry about the mosquito bites, but calling me a cheap date is incredibly rude and hurtful - you cannot talk to me like that" To which she responds: "You were an extremely cheap date. Had you checked on google you would have found much better spots. I can talk to you how I choose. You are cheap!" I still want this girl but she is being a complete bitch. How do I respond to this? I know I cannot let her walk over me but at the same time if I come back with a strongly worded enough reply she is just gonna leave. Need help finding a good balance. Thanks! you probably were a cheap date. mystery method is great, but being a cheap date, not paying , etc. is retarded and just makes you look like a cheap dbag.

Author:	Betamax [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 2:48 pm ]
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I thought I was reading some really stupid crap in the OP's post until I read this one: Quote: you probably were a cheap date. mystery method is great, but being a cheap date, not paying , etc. is retarded and just makes you look like a cheap dbag. What in the holy fuck? TheFury, you are by far the most retarded user on this forum. I would find a meme or picture to describe your level of retardation, but I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to find anything to said level. First of all, OP... It wasn't a cheap date. A walk and watching the sunset will always beat a fancy dinner or movie. Besides being more romantic, it helps you escalate and ramp up attraction. Second of all, why would you still want to be with her? You put effort into finding a good date, and you gave her your time. And that's the thank she has for you? That's her telling you to fuck off. In reality, you clearly failed to create attraction. Had you taken her on the same date and played your cards right, she wouldn't have been telling you all that crap.

Author:	Tr@veler [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:01 pm ]
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Seriously you lost by reacting here. We need more details first of all, but you shouldn't even care about this if the date went well. How did it end up when you went to her place? Or did you go to her place at all?

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:05 pm ]
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Need more details. How much did you touch her, how much did you look into her eyes, did you hold hands, did you even attempt to kiss?

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Author:	Betamax [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:28 pm ]
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Honestly I don't think we need more details. While it's easy to blame the OP for failing to create action, I don't see how any situation could have called for her to react in such a way. She is quite obviously unstable and isn't worth any investment. The average girl would have simply ignored his texts.

Author:	TheFury [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:40 pm ]
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Quote: I thought I was reading some really stupid crap in the OP's post until I read this one: Quote: you probably were a cheap date. mystery method is great, but being a cheap date, not paying , etc. is retarded and just makes you look like a cheap dbag. What in the holy fuck? TheFury, you are by far the most retarded user on this forum. I would find a meme or picture to describe your level of retardation, but I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to find anything to said level. First of all, OP... It wasn't a cheap date. A walk and watching the sunset will always beat a fancy dinner or movie. Besides being more romantic, it helps you escalate and ramp up attraction. Second of all, why would you still want to be with her? You put effort into finding a good date, and you gave her your time. And that's the thank she has for you? That's her telling you to fuck off. In reality, you clearly failed to create attraction. Had you taken her on the same date and played your cards right, she wouldn't have been telling you all that crap. lol. the girl sounds like a bitch but have you ever, ever been called out for being a cheap date, ever? I have got to think something came off as cheap for her to go crazy like that. Though I guess she could be a total psycho.

Author:	JoeHardi [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 7:11 pm ]
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Its kind of easy to answer such a message: Either: "Yes, I know it was cheap and I know i would do it the same next time. Cause u are just one of those idiotic girls who are just playing with me. I thought u are different... -This one is very riscy, cause either she wrote u such a message cause she hates u or she wants to test u, to see ur reaction. If the second case matches, u must suprise her, like this. Or: "One more question before I break up with u, how was [sth. u ate...]" -This one is also very riscy, but hey, if she is really such a b****, u shoudn't give a single fuck. There are too many other different girls who are just waiting for us U must decide now which way matches the best for u. I hope it was usefull and - no guarantee, i dont know her, it's up to u, Good luck, Joe

Author:	Hot-Shot [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 9:39 pm ]
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From the message she sent you, in my opinion, she didn't deserve such an explanation. You don't owe her anything. She's a fucking bitch man. lol

Author:	Lostinthecrowd [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:10 am ]
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Well without your help (I read this too late haha) I defused the situation. To answer your questions in order: Betamax: Because she is quite attractive. Could have done better, but I did play my cards reasonably well. Traveler/Hunter: It wound up well. We were kissing for a good part of the night, lot of hand holding, touching, etc. She did not put out at her place but I wasn't expecting it. Fury: I have never been called a cheap date before. I think she is a little crazy. I was confused because after leaving that night she said she had an amazing time. The next day I get this text saying the complete opposite. Now she's back to normal. She wants me to come back to her place again after our next date which is a good thing I guess?? She lives with her mom tho so it's kinda awkward

Author:	Betamax [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:30 am ]
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Quote: Betamax: Because she is quite attractive. Could have done better, but I did play my cards reasonably well. So? What about you? Name me 10 things you find attractive about yourself (credit to Majik)... Doesn't have to be looks. Do not ever lower yourself to a girl. You're only as shitty as you say you are. If you think you're big, then you'll be big. Quote: Now she's back to normal. She wants me to come back to her place again after our next date which is a good thing I guess?? She lives with her mom tho so it's kinda awkward Yeah, psycho much? But then again, that's the quality to expect from online girls. Piece of advice: don't ever fall for this girl or you're in for nightmare. Fuck her and be done with her.

Author:	Betamax [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:56 am ]
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Yeah bro, all of that is pure gold... In fact, way better than most PUAs here. If you'd just ramp up your confidence, you could be a PUA yourself in a matter of months, if not weeks. So we don't want to hear you lowering yourself for a girl ever again. Yeah, she's attractive, who cares? You're better and you better start believing it. So the next time she talks shit to you, you let her know you won't take it, and if she doesn't like it, then she can stay at home while she mooches off mommy. As far as the deleting account thing... That's to be expected... If you're in a relationship. But if she said that on your Day 2, then yeah, she's either nutty or just plain dumb.

Author:	Lostinthecrowd [ Sat Jul 13, 2013 2:16 am ]
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Just wanted to follow up on this old post of mine. You were right. This girl turned out to be bat shit insane. I diffused the situation after the first date and saw her again... second time went very well in person but the next day she texts me cussing me out because I teased her about not knowing how to open my car door from the inside... ahhh effin crazy!

Author:	Betamax [ Sun Jul 14, 2013 6:07 am ]
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There ya go. Once psycho, always psycho. Thanks for the update.

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