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| Author: | mitchell86 [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 4:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is there any way I can salvage this? Urgent help needed! |
Hello everyone. This site is a great resource, I have learned so much from here. I'm not new to PUA but I do know I still have lots to learn and I have run into a situation where I know I screwed up and have no idea what to do. Any advice that anyone can offer would be awesome. Last week my buddy and I out sarging at a club and near the end of the night we saw 2 girls, HB7.5 and HB9.5. We have glimpsed HB7.5 (but not HB9.5) at this and other clubs before. HB7.5 was throwing IOI's at my friend, he was very interested in her and since her friend was super hot we approached. I tried talking to HB9.5 but she was cold and only giving short answers. It was obvious she had not been having a good time, she wasn't even drinking she only had water. I brought up fitness and martial arts in order to DHV myself and it seemed to work because she got a little more talkative (I have taken a few martial classes) This is where I screwed up. I tried something I read on this site about using showing her martial arts techniques as an excuse to KINO. I was telling her about how important it is for everyone to know basic self defence. She asked if I was an expert and I playfully tried to act like I wasn't while smiling and shaking my head. I told her I could show her something and asked her to give me her hand. I want to DHV myself more by showing her a wrist lock and use it as an excuse for KINO. She kind of looked away and shook her head. I promised I wouldn't hurt her but she said it wasn't a good idea. I was all like come on it won't be that bad. She repeated that it wouldn't be a good idea but I took her hand. I started to show her the lock and next thing I know she has spun me around so I was against the wall and facing it and she has her knee in my back and my arm twisted in some armlock. She moved so fast I didn't even see it and she was STRONG for a tiny girl. She let go right away and went right back to her drink without saying a word. Lucky for me 1) we were in the corner and there was a support pole and my friend and HB9.5 were in the way so no one else saw including them and 2) at that exact moment my buddy had gotten HB7.5's number and said we had to go (false time constraint) So we left the club. This really did a number on me, I'm embarrassed and haven't been able to stop thinking about it. My friend has been texting HB7.5 and tomorrow night they are meeting at a different club. According to my friend HB7.5 knows nothing about the incident. He asked HB7.5 about her friend and said I was interested. She told him HB9.5 is single but is very uptight and serious. She just retired active military as a weapons expert and is in the reserves now and teaches self defence to military and law enforcement and self defence and situational awareness to civilians. She has no interest in clubs only came to babysit HB7.5 and stop her from doing anything stupid while drunk. She hates being touched unless it's totally necessary doesn't touch alcohol or drugs because they slow your reflexes and your mind. According to HB7.5 they have known each other since childhood and HB9.5 has always been borderline paranoid and has a super high defence shield and is constantly on the lookout for "threats". She is the kind of girl who doesn't even wear headphones in public or at the gym because she wants to be aware of everything around her and wouldn't even let a strange guy get near enough to try day game. HB7.5 promised to try and get HB9.5 to come out tomorrow night so I can try again (not knowing what happened the first time) because she thinks her friend needs to have fun. I am genuinely interested in this girl and my question is if there is any way I can salvage the situation? She isn't a regular girl, she hates flirting, partying, thinks going to clubs, dancing, eating dessert etc is "frivolous". Making her jealous, negging her or freezing her out won't work since she doesn't care. She is also an expert in psychology and body language so I'm not even sure how to game her. If I do see her tomorrow should I act like nothing happened? Should I laugh it off? Or maybe make a joke? Does anyone know how I can approach and be successful and salvage this? |
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