This works well if you have a great rapport with the target. This one is very good to build an emotional bond…
(Note: It will be better if you take your target to a quieter place)
Your first job is to instigate her feelings by asking her to remember something, which was dear to her, and she lost it.
As I asked, “You know it hurts most when you lose your most prized possession be it is your love or anything else. Ever such thing happened to you?”
She answers.
“Alice was her name and she used to live at the house next door. She used to come every morning to my house and we used to have breakfast together. Then she used to leave and go to her house and I go to my work. But, from last month she doesn’t come to my house anymore… (After a brief silence) she is no more.”
She might sympathize and say she is sorry.
Then tell, “The thing I love about her most is her ‘meow’… it was so sweet.”
She will be taken aback about it.
Then slowly tell her, "It was the cat next door."
Don’t worry about it. She might tell some story about her life similar to mine narrated story.
But if she says, “Aww… and I thought she was your lover… but it was just a cat.”
Look at her eyes and say, “she might be just a cat but she was like my best friend. By saying that you hurt me. I thought you would have been different than rest of other girls… “
With that neg girls try to improve their self-image (atleast it happened with me) as they (mostly HBs above
were used to positive comments not negative. However, the conversation will go on… But remember, use it only if you have a very well rapport with the girl. I don’t know what will happen if it is used when there is less or no rapport at all.