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| Author: | bestisyettocome [ Tue May 28, 2013 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pickup fail at dance class |
So I'm taking a dance class, which is a great way to meet women. Oh, and you learn how to dance too. - with one girl had a lot of time to chat and see each other a few times. Was able to isolate, get her number, call her, she called me and texted me back twice after I told her I was busy for the weekend. I should have taken her 2nd call but shit was going on. Still friendly with her but that's another story. Would actually rather friendzone her for a bit and hit on her friends but wonder how to manage all that. - Next girl is probably the hottest in the class. Pleasant but seems shy, maybe it's a language thing or maybe she's concentrating on actually learning. Typically shows up last and and first to leave with her friend. Since she doesn't stick around it's a little harder to get any conversation in, and this class changes up partners every few minutes. BTW a lot of the girls seem shy and English isn't their first language. Bit of a cultural minefield. I didn't want to leave it too long, it had already been several classes. I was direct and told her I thought she was attractive which she didn't seem to mind. I blathered on a bit and then asked her if she wanted to get a drink. - fail 1: not reading her correctly or building enough interest - fail 2: I think I should have just let my complement sink in longer - fail 3: Should have suggested rather than asking, and coffee instead of a drink. I have stuff afterwards on some nights so I can't always stick around. I don't want that to be limiting. What should I say? I'm busy tonight, but I want your number because I want to talk to you some more. Too direct? |
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