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Author:  gingerguy [ Mon May 27, 2013 6:15 am ]
Post subject:  How to deal with the "I have a boyfriend" response
Didn't know how to deal with it. Came up in an approach tonight. How do you deal with it?
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Mon May 27, 2013 7:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to deal with the "I have a boyfriend" response
Put your arm around her, smile confidently and say "well, he better not find out then."

Or use the strawman response listed on this forum. Both are good.
Author:  Melodical [ Mon May 27, 2013 9:17 am ]
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Totally ignore it and game as normally; it's usually an autopilot shit test to check out your alpha credentials.
Author:  ABlock [ Tue May 28, 2013 1:13 am ]
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Totally ignore it and game as normally; it's usually an autopilot shit test to check out your alpha credentials.
Agreed. If you have to say anything in response say something like:

Way to go, HB.

and then continue your game. You may want to be less direct with your intentions just so she isn't reminding you every 2 minutes that she has a boyfriend.
Author:  dingles [ Tue May 28, 2013 6:20 pm ]
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just been in this situation myself, steer clear unless your're confident somethings there, i was convinced and now nothings come of it,

just get out there and work your magic where its appreciated.
Author:  TheFury [ Tue May 28, 2013 6:37 pm ]
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Sometimes, it actually does mean she has a boyfriend. My view is, it is definitely not a dealbreaker, but, like dingles said, go for a higher percentage play. Easier.
Author:  Jsahn93 [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 3:41 am ]
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Question;
Would jokingly saying, "so do I!" be an acceptable respobse?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 4:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to deal with the "I have a boyfriend" response
Ask "Whats his name?"

See how long she takes to respond... If she hesitates, she is lying and jokingly call her out on it.
Author:  Will. [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 9:18 pm ]
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"So do I!"
Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 3:59 pm ]
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HAHAHA!!! good shit Majikal!!!

I'm gonna premeditate on that one for sure.
Author:  fudger [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 9:46 pm ]
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See my tactic is to either just say, do you want another, with a cheeky smile, or how did he get so unlucky????? Depending on the girl? Lol
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:19 pm ]
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I think majikal reponse is a good idea, however I think some single girls could think of a quick name without hesitance just by remembering her last ex and land it with conviction.

I have shagged a couple of girls with bf's, but what I do is to physically escalate at the start of the interaction and you will the find the truth instantly just be escalating.

Granted , there is a good chance that majority do have legit BF's. but there is no shame for going for it, even in front of her bf.
Author:  Preston87 [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:37 pm ]
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Ask "Whats his name?"

See how long she takes to respond... If she hesitates, she is lying and jokingly call her out on it.

Nah, I don't like this route. I mean sure you can challenge her this way then read her body language into revealing whether she's actually taken or not - but that's going to be far less effective than directly countering with a joke or blatantly brushing the comment aside. You come off as overly stand-offish by asking "What's his name" but you come off as witty/more alpha/less-shaken if you brush it aside and continue running your game. My standard responses to the boyfriend line are immediately countering with: "Well I don't think you should bring him.... that would just be awkward," or "No, really - what's your number?"
Author:  Preston87 [ Mon Jul 22, 2013 11:38 pm ]
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Granted , there is a good chance that majority do have legit BF's. but there is no shame for going for it, even in front of her bf.
If he's there - acknowledge him at the beginning, then literally ignore him from that point forward.
Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Tue Jul 23, 2013 12:14 am ]
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Granted , there is a good chance that majority do have legit BF's. but there is no shame for going for it, even in front of her bf.
If he's there - acknowledge him at the beginning, then literally ignore him from that point forward.

So acknowledge him at the beginning, by saying something to him, and then literally try to pick up his girl right in front of his eyes? I'm not saying this is a bad idea, I'm just wondering how you would go about pulling it off. For example, you would just ask for her number right in front of him if you feel like you reached that point? Wouldn't she be reluctant to give it to you while he's there due to ASD?

Your post is really confusing me. On a side not though, I like your two alternative BF Destroyers as opposed to Majikal's. I think both of yours, and his are good. Thanks for the tips guys.
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