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| Author: | confidencemagnet [ Fri May 24, 2013 3:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keep The Convo Flowing With A Little Controversy |
Don't confuse controversy with gossip. I don't want you guys saying, "I heard so and so was dating this person." You are not one of her girlfriends or her gay gal pals. You are man who wants to show her you're not afraid of pushing her buttons. You are not afraid to speak your mind. A word of advice. Keep it fun and playful and have facts backing your shit up. Here's a scenario. You are talking to this girl and you feel like you're running out of things to say. This is when a little controversy can spike the conversation back up. These reality TV shows get good ratings because they are full of controversy. You don't have to be over the top with it, just give her some facts that makes her think. You want your conversation to blend into that controversial topic. You don't want it to be forced. Let's say you're talking about past relationships or about dating in general. You: I believe that a lot of women don't enjoy sex is because deep down inside they feel like they're being degraded and disrespected. Whores never have a problem getting an orgasm. This is why I think women need to be sluts when they're having sex. You know how the saying goes, 'A man wants a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed'. Her: How can you say that. I think sex should be shared with two people who care about each other. You: Let me ask you a question. Have you ever faked an orgasm with the person you care about? Her: Are you serious? I'm not gonna tell you that! You: I'm guessing that's a yes. So how many times are you not gonna tell me that you "faked it"? Her: ... six times You: Wow! That's terrible. I bet you every man you've had sex with has never faked it. A man will always get his and if he can't cum it's because he came too many times prior to that. Her: I think men don't know what they're doing. It's they're fault, not ours. You: I think you don't know what you want. You say you want to be made love to, but if your man is making love to you, you don't enjoy it. Then you cheat (not saying you've cheated) and it's with a man who is blowing your back out. He's not into making love but fucking your pretty brains out. Then when your boyfriend ask you why you cheated, your answer is, "it was an accident". No, the other man knew what he was doing and he ignored your BS about "making love". Women want and need to get in touch with their inner slut when it comes to sex. Her: You know what... you're right. You: I know I'm right and I bet you that when we leave, you won't fake it with me. Her: How will you know and what makes you think I'm sleeping with you when we leave? (smiling) You: I know what spots to hit at the right speed, the right pace and the right force. I could make love to you or blow your back out and you'll love it all the same. So with that answer, you're curious, and I bet you want me to prove myself. Her: Ha, ha, ha, you're something else (giggling) If you step into the realm of controversy, you must always say it with conviction. It's something you believe. Man/woman relationships are always a good topic. Sex is an even better topic. When a man can confidently talk about sex, it shows he's not trying to be her buddy. He is trying to sleep with her. You want to include the both of you in a sexual situation in the topic because you want to link you and her having sex. Not you and her gossiping about what was on your favorite reality show. When a man can confidently bring up controversial topics without fear or ostracism, he is conveying a very powerful message to her... I am a very strong man who could care less what you think of me. As long as you're not trying to disrespect her and keep it fun, you will usually get a good back and forth conversation going on. I know this is not going to be easy because naturally you don't want to fuck things up with the girl you're dating but by playing it safe is fucking it up. You are not showing her a side of you that women find attractive... the ability to speak your mind. |
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| Author: | Hot-Shot [ Mon Jun 03, 2013 6:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keep The Convo Flowing With A Little Controversy |
I think the topic about faking it is a solid topic of controversy to keep the convo flowing. Any other topics of the sort rather than a broad 'sex' or 'relationships'. |
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