PUA Forum :: How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themself?

Some girls who try to DHV themself, and I basically just neg them instead, and really piss off at the fact their thinking is so immature sometimes.

So they DHV, i neg them, and compliment very little about themself.
And heard about ways on making them chase after you when you make them attracted. Any ideas?

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Dude... if a girl is trying to qualify herself... let her. That means she likes you. Just screen for the qualities that you want. Her opening up to you= GOOD!

Yeah screening means exactly what you said, just deciding if you want her or not.

As far as the guy she likes part, remember its possible for a person to be attracted to more than one person, and if shes hot then chances are there will always be someone other than you who is interested in the girl. My advice in this case is to change gears a little and be much more direct. As Majikal said you should take the fact the girl was trying to impress you as an IOI, therefore you dont need to neg her. A neg is mainly used when a girl feels shes a little too good for you, so you use subtle putdowns to make her qualify herself to you. In this case, that is exactly what she was doing, so you maybe shouldve escalted with some kino and sexual talk. Then if that goes well you should be open about your attraction to her and go for a close.

Author:	Ghoster [ Thu May 23, 2013 4:40 pm ]
Post subject:	How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themself?
Some girls who try to DHV themself, and I basically just neg them instead, and really piss off at the fact their thinking is so immature sometimes. So they DHV, i neg them, and compliment very little about themself. And heard about ways on making them chase after you when you make them attracted. Any ideas?

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Thu May 23, 2013 4:50 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themse
Quote: Some girls who try to DHV themself, and I basically just neg them instead, and really piss off at the fact their thinking is so immature sometimes. So they DHV, i neg them, and compliment very little about themself. And heard about ways on making them chase after you when you make them attracted. Any ideas? Dude... if a girl is trying to qualify herself... let her. That means she likes you. Just screen for the qualities that you want. Her opening up to you= GOOD!

Author:	Ghoster [ Thu May 23, 2013 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themse
Quote: Quote: Some girls who try to DHV themself, and I basically just neg them instead, and really piss off at the fact their thinking is so immature sometimes. So they DHV, i neg them, and compliment very little about themself. And heard about ways on making them chase after you when you make them attracted. Any ideas? Dude... if a girl is trying to qualify herself... let her. That means she likes you. Just screen for the qualities that you want. Her opening up to you= GOOD! Sorry bro, not really good with PUA language, whats screening? you mean choosing the qualities you like? And one more thing, I was basically negging her alot of times and tease her the same time, and she said "later im going to find the guy I like nearby already"... im like huh? but ignore anyways. then when I tried to ask for date at the end, she says she dont know, and I dont even felt like number closing anymore.

Author:	Disco90 [ Thu May 23, 2013 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themse
Yeah screening means exactly what you said, just deciding if you want her or not. As far as the guy she likes part, remember its possible for a person to be attracted to more than one person, and if shes hot then chances are there will always be someone other than you who is interested in the girl. My advice in this case is to change gears a little and be much more direct. As Majikal said you should take the fact the girl was trying to impress you as an IOI, therefore you dont need to neg her. A neg is mainly used when a girl feels shes a little too good for you, so you use subtle putdowns to make her qualify herself to you. In this case, that is exactly what she was doing, so you maybe shouldve escalted with some kino and sexual talk. Then if that goes well you should be open about your attraction to her and go for a close.

Author:	Ghoster [ Fri May 24, 2013 2:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How to deal with girls who try to qualify, or DHV themse
Quote: Yeah screening means exactly what you said, just deciding if you want her or not. As far as the guy she likes part, remember its possible for a person to be attracted to more than one person, and if shes hot then chances are there will always be someone other than you who is interested in the girl. My advice in this case is to change gears a little and be much more direct. As Majikal said you should take the fact the girl was trying to impress you as an IOI, therefore you dont need to neg her. A neg is mainly used when a girl feels shes a little too good for you, so you use subtle putdowns to make her qualify herself to you. In this case, that is exactly what she was doing, so you maybe shouldve escalted with some kino and sexual talk. Then if that goes well you should be open about your attraction to her and go for a close. Awesome piece of advice bro, will work on it. At that point of time when she told me that she going to find someone she likes now, I took it as a IOD, so im kind of like yeah.

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