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Author:  AKisbaked [ Wed May 22, 2013 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  How to continue the conversation? feedback please!
I got this chicks number, actually she is a co worker of mine but we don't see each other very often. I worked with her for a bit last year then I moved locations to another site.

Anyways, we've been chatting on FB for awhile and she gave me her number. I didn't text her the day of when she gave me it. But when I did text her this is how the conversation went

Me: This is a VIP number. Store with care. -AK

Her: Oh no. I'm terrible at guessing names lol.. Initials "AK" help me out a little

Me: If I give you hints you may reveal my identity

Her: Nope. I won't

Me: Ok. Here's a hint you will be seeing me shortly.

Her: Are you in SOC? ( i didn't even know what this stands for)

Her: OMG (*my name*)

Me: I don't even know what that means but no

Me: I couldn't resist and make you guess. Hope I didn't scare you.


Critique my conversation via text. But after that she hasn't replied... Im not stressing over anything but I just wonder why she didn't respond when she realized it was me.. I didn't send her any other messages after that.. I'm not trying to look needy..

Feedback would be appreciated and any constructive criticism would help :)
Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue the conversation? feedback please!
Hey man

Well one thing you did wrong is you sent 2 texts back to back without getting a response. I know this might not seem like a big deal, but trust me it makes you seem needy. Until you get "good" at pick up, you should just take it as a hard rule to never send more than one text without getting a response. If you don't get a response, you have to wait until the next day. Then if you don't get a response again, you have to wait 2 days, etc. This is one of those rules that once you get better and understand all the subtleties and have a better idea of exactly where you're at in the interaction, you can start to break sometimes, but for now just keep it as a hard rule.

Other than that, there isn't really anything in particular you did wrong in that text convo. You used that Julian Foxxx line which is fine. I use that from time to time (although there are better lines to start a text convo). The convo was short so theres not much to critique. I'd have to see how you're original convo went on FB to really know what you did right and what you did wrong. But keep in mind, if you do everything correctly in the original interaction, than it matters less and less to have "text game." A lot of text game problems come from not having done something correctly in the original interaction.
Author:  akerssam1 [ Wed May 22, 2013 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue the conversation? feedback please!
I would have been more subtle than mysterious. Like the previous poster said do not send two texts, and guessing games never work out well. When a girl gives me her number I treat her like a girl would treat me if I friend zoned her.

Short response, take control, and actively exclude her from your life when she wants to be a part of it. Then eventually include her.
Author:  AKisbaked [ Sat May 25, 2013 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue the conversation? feedback please!
Thanks y'all. Ya i shouldn't of texted 2 messages right after each other... So just to update me and this girl already agreed to meet up on Sunday. She did reply back to me saying that my number is now in her phone. So now its the "MEET UP" text that I want to send to her. She never replied back after 1 message i sent her after she told me she has my number.

Just wondering what I should send her or not send anything?
Author:  DaveUrkel (BlackWhitePU) [ Wed May 29, 2013 2:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue the conversation? feedback please!
I get the vibe that you're going the "low key hangout" route instead of the date route and it doesn't seem like you've really hit on her or displayed sexual interest.
If you continue down that path, you're are headed toward the friend zone, which is why I am not a fan of the "low key hangout" route. I always tell girls we are going on a date.
So, with that said, a good thing to text girls the day of the date is something like:
Me: Hope you're ready for our date later
Her:Oh Im ready :)
Me: Well look, I do expect you to be wearing a Cinderella dress and glass slippers. When I pull up, just look for the guy in shining armor on a white horse, that'll be me ;)
Her: Haha blah blah blah

Something like this allows you to make sure she hasnt forgotten about the date and the playfulness helps to get her in a good mood with good feelings towards the date PLUS when you meet up, you can quickly get rid of any jitters or nervousness she or you might have about the date, by immediately going into a roleplay/playful banter:
Me: HEY! You're supposed to be wearing glass slippers. Tisk Tisk.
Her: Well wheres you're horse and shining armor?!?
Me: I left it in the car. The horse is in the backseat. I might get it out later, if you're good.

Theres nothing super special about any of those lines, but they are playful, so they are good for before the date and at the beginning of the date to get that good energy flowing and that first text lets you know that she still has the date on her mind and is going to show up.
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