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Author:  cakeman [ Mon May 20, 2013 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Texting girl I met online
Been texting this girl for a few weeks, met her online.

Me: Congratulations
Her: ??
Me: I was just thinking about you. Congratulations! ;) *I got this opener from this forum I think*
Her: Haha oooh you're so smooth
Me: Only with girls I'm interested in
Her: Hah oh yeah?
Me: Oh but where are my manners, you probably have a boyfriend *Testing this line out, unsure if it works yet*
Her: Haha I don't have a boyfriend really.. but I have been seeing someone *This is unfamiliar territory for me so I just went for it*
Me: Ah, so does that mean you and I can't hang out sometime? I'm free this coming weekend
Her: Hmm I think I'm busy unfortunatley.
Me: That's too bad, it would have been cool to get to know you a bit better. But it's all g.
Her: Maybe we can another time! :p *I wasn't sure how to interepret this*
Me: Ooh I dunno, I think you might get me into trouble ;)

Went on to chat/joke around for a bit. Any feedback is appreciated. Thanks guys!
Author:  O_Atlas_O [ Mon May 20, 2013 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl I met online
Not bad at all. The only thing is when she suggested another time, try and push her to give an exact time for a Day 2.

Fact is, when a woman feels a good amount of attraction for you, she'll try a lot harder than that to meet up. But that's the thing about gaming Online, you have to work a bit harder because you've never met her Face to Face.
Author:  cakeman [ Mon May 20, 2013 10:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl I met online
I was thinking about asking her when she would rather hang out but I thought it might come across as a little desperate, so instead I just teased her a little with the intention of asking her out again in a week or two. Thanks for the the feedback, more is welcome!
Author:  1717 [ Tue May 21, 2013 1:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl I met online
I have managed to generate three girlfriends at the same time from online gaming. They all believed they were in a relationship with me... Unfortunately, my morals got in the way of that particular triple sandwich...

But online/text doesn't always have to be pushed harder- true, through text the girl can't physically see your body movements etc, but that doesn't mean anything. I got one of the hottest messages I have ever received in my life from a girl online who I hadn't met face to face before...

But I agree with Atlas, if she seemed genuinely willing to meet up then she would give clear indications of that. I really like your start there- Perhaps go along with the jokes/ online gaming for another 'conversation slot' ( i.e. when you next have a text/online conversation that lasts for longer than 10-20 messages) and see how eager she is then. Please do get back to us with any progression!
Author:  cakeman [ Sat May 25, 2013 9:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl I met online
Thanks for the advice guys. Gonna text her again tomorrow and I'll post the convo if it's interesting.
Author:  zzzman [ Fri Jun 14, 2013 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texting girl I met online
Her: Haha I don't have a boyfriend really.. but I have been seeing someone
Me: That's nice, so anyway I'm free this Saturday night - I want you to meet at BAR NAME, at 9pm.
Her: I can't I'm busy
Me: Cool, Iv'e got an old friend coming in from out of town, she's staying with me for a week - but maybe we can hookup next week or something, later

DONE, BAIL. Text her a week later and name the bar and time in the first text, set things up and bail. Stop having conversations by text and asking if they have a BF!

This is just my game though man, you got to figure out what works best for you, what your comfortable with.
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