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Author:  AKisbaked [ Tue May 14, 2013 9:09 pm ]
Post subject:  trouble making that connection

Hey everyone just joined MPUA and this my first post so please be easy on me please!!! :)

Just met this girl at the gym that I go to, she works at the front desk and every Sunday that I go she is there. We talk for a bit before I go off and do my own thing. She seems really nice, and she talks ALOT. :D which I find is a good thing because the conversations are interesting and doesn't die out. There's always something to talk about.

So I got her number and i just started to text her yesterday.. But I feel really odd about messaging her and talking to her.. maybe because I feel like I have to show her that I'm different from the others and im trying to impress her. Plus I only talk to her in person everytime I see her. Also I feel like she is out of my league, and in my mind I feel like she would never go for someone like me. (She's a girl that I would of never thought I would want to go out with but for some reason im really into her)

Pretty much in person im not nervous to talk to her but when im texting her I don't know what to say and I feel like im scaring her away and putting myself in a bad position where she will friend zone me.... Maybe im trying too hard with my messages? Overthinking everything a bit too much?

Any suggestions to keep this entertaining and fun as much as possible, so she won't think im being a weirdo? :?

Appreciate the feedback! :mrgreen:

Author:  lloydPapi [ Tue May 14, 2013 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: trouble making that connection

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she is out of my league, and in my mind I feel like she would never go for someone like me. (She's a girl that I would of never thought I would want to go out with but for some reason im really into her
this is the problem your not confident in your self, then how do you expect people to go out with you offcourse they will be insecure around you. there is no bullshit like out of my league all you have to do is be confident and treat her like she aint nothing special stop being desperate just act the way you act around your friends,
never talk for too long on the phone thats what people with no life do even when you got something to do just pretend your busy, girls love that busy guys then suddenly just tell her i want to see you or lets go out for a drink or something common quite being shy and just ask her you got nothing to lose either way

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