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| Author: | DrTooMany [ Thu May 09, 2013 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help staying alpha |
I've never been an alpha-male but since studying pua I've been trying. I find alcohol helps bring out the alpha. So I met this girl that works in the same building as me. Recently we went out with mutual friends twice. Both times I was drunk and tons of fun keeping a strong alpha frame. When we cross paths at work it's easy to flirt and stay alpha since it's usually brief. We met out for a drink last night and my frame definitely changed. I was a little timid, kino came much harder since I was pretty sober, conversations were a little boring. Despite all that I gave her an awkward peck on the lips afterwards and she even texted me later on telling me she wanted more. We were supposed to go to the beach today but it doesn't look like its happening. I really really like this girl and I don't know how to keep her interested. She's still interested in me but I can sense it might not last if I can't stay alpha. Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks to all readers. |
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| Author: | getyourgf [ Thu May 09, 2013 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help staying alpha |
Quote: I was a little timid, kino came much harder since I was pretty sober, conversations were a little boring. Despite all that
I like how you're honest and you know what you wanna improve on. How about this...before you meet her next time, approach 1-5 random people to get you into that energetic, fun, relaxed state |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Fri May 10, 2013 1:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help staying alpha |
I'm going to be a little harsh here but you need it. If you aren't alpha when you are sober, you aren't alpha at all. A few beers might help you pretend to be, but you are just pretending. Drinking is good as it lets you get out of your shell a bit, but at the same time it is a bit of an illusion. You need to go out and game sober, work on your body language during the day and just keep practicing. Don't delude yourself into thinking you are an alpha male because you are a little more fun when you drink. That's a recipe for making no progress at all. Remember a rich man doesn't need to tell you he's rich. Get good at sober game, work on building your own sense of self worth ad NEVER claim to be alpha ever, even if you think you are. |
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| Author: | DrTooMany [ Fri May 10, 2013 1:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need help staying alpha |
Thanks for the responses. Don't worry about being harsh on me I can handle it. I definitely am a newbie so I know there's a lot that needs to change in my game. I totally believe doing more sober sagging will help me in the long run but at the moment I'm completely infatuated with this girl and am focusing on keeping her interest. Thanks for the tips guys |
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