Hi guys, I am recently single out of a pretty long relationship for me (my choice, she was hot but mental and couldn't deal with it any more). Just getting back into the game, trying to work it all out again. I was OK before, honestly think I'm better now but still having a few troubles going all the way from opener to the end.

Right now, most of my conversations are going well, girls are reacting to me well when I open and will chat and flirt. I am just having trouble escalating to the next level. I'm thinking maybe need to keno escalate a bit more? I know my body language is good, can keep eye contact, control the conversation most of the time, tease them to stay dominant but something seems lacking. Oh well, why dwell? I think I can solve these issues on my own (only been out twice since being single hahaha). On to the question.

What the hell do you do when the girl just doesn't shut the f*** up? Like I'll open, chat, make her laugh, tell an interesting story, then she starts talking and doesn't stop. This has happened to me several times in the last couple of outings and I'd really like to know a way out of it. It seems really hard to close when they are the ones doing all the talking, everything I try feels a little awkward. Thinking about just finding an excuse and walking away and chatting with some other girl I see, then coming back and saying "good, you are just as cute as I left you" or something like that, then going in hard. I dunno, what do you think? Sometimes I feel like being a total jerk and telling them to shut up because they talk too much, but often I have friends gaming their friends so it's not really an option.

Any advice? Also, some advice on good ways to escalate would be nice? Thanks in advance!

That's the thing, I usually let them keep talking. Problem comes when I try to escalate. Honestly not sure what to do. Just get them to stand closer to me and kino while they are talking? Force my way into the conversation? Just number close?

I don't want to stand there listening to them talk all night only to find out they aren't interested for whatever reason. Especially when there are other girls just as hot if not hotter all over the bar lol...