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| Author: | Eerie [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 7:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Using drinking games to build comfort. |
Hey guys. I'm a sort of drinker that loves to play games and have lots of fun. I love flip cup, thumper, shooter, cheers general and other games like that. My question is; is it wise to use drinking games to build rapport and comfort with a set? How and when can you introduce this idea to them? Can it be directly after the opener? Are there any games in particular that you guys would suggest using to play with a new set of girls? My idea would be to approach and say hello to the group and mention how you want to help them have fun. Maybe: PUA: Hey there. My friends are being downers of sorts and you guys look like a fun crowd. I'm blah blah. whats your names? Set: They introduce themselves you all meet. PUA: Thats a sweet name. Fluff, situational talk. PUA: Did you guys go to college at all? (More fluff) Remember how fun drinking was back then? Now everybody drinks like old people. I kinda miss the old flip cup frank the tank days. Set: OMG yeah I do blah blah PUA: Wanna play a game of ....? Here's how to play. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 9:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Using drinking games to build comfort. |
Why are you trying to build comfort? Get to the point. Act with intent. Approach, qualify, escalate, close. repeat. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 10:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Using drinking games to build comfort. |
Quote: Why are you trying to build comfort? Get to the point. Act with intent.
I've heard this guideline before. What techniques can I use to qualify. I thought that this would be one.
Approach, qualify, escalate, close. repeat. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Sun Apr 28, 2013 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Using drinking games to build comfort. |
Qualifying is just letting her know what you like about her. Sometimes this is done through breaking her frame and getting her to seek validation from you, and then awarding her with approval and escalation. Women who have more abundance will have stronger frames as they are secure enough in themselves through that abundance and they don't need to seek your approval. You don't have to directly break their frame, just find some intrigue and/or cold read her, and award her with escalation, then approval. Intrigue and cold read builds a deeper connection that builds tension. Tension is broken with either verbal confirmation of a deeper connection and/or k-close. |
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