Hi guys

Here is a quick question from something that has come up in the past where I gone past the attraction phase into building rapor e.g. we are sitting alone or back at either her house or mine and then somehow the conversation always seems to end up on past relationships. Mostly the girl giving me and earful about and complaining guys. I guess the problem is lake of sexual vibe. Is there a way I can better control the frame and in rapor stage what sort of frame should I be adopting I have always tried to get to know the girls hobbies and interests primarily and explore those or talk about mine.

Any advice?

Thanks

Raven