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Author:  MrPopper [ Mon Apr 15, 2013 10:21 pm ]
Post subject:  girl hasn't texted me back after second date
Hey guys,

I went out with this girl twice. Second time, she seems very interested. She leans into me during the date, good physical contact, also alludes to us going out again. Seems to really enjoy herself. We go to my place and make out, and she is very into it. I pull back a bit here and there and she leans into me and wants to continue. Felt her up a little. Eventually I push a bit she says she should to go home and laughs. Does not appear upset in any way, and seems happy. I walk her to her vehicle and we kiss a few times, again she is very into it. I pull back again after a couple of kisses and she leaned into me for few more. The next day, last night at 8 pm I send her the following text:

"Hey Emily! I enjoyed hanging out with you yesterday! :) Even if you were looking over at other girls haha! How was your day today?"

Explanation, she was checking out a girl's pants and staring as the girl walked by, and I teased her about it. She has not texted me back. She is normally very fast at texting and always has her phone with her. Other info, I met the girl online. I'm thinking that text was not the best one to send, but was it that bad?

What do you guys think? Should I wait a few days, or ask what's up, or forget about her? I'm confused as to why this suddenly went downhill after things were going so well.
Author:  RiRi [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 7:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
From what you described, seems promising.

The only thing I think you went overboard was with the texting. You definitely don't need that many "!" in there. Makes you sound all high pitched and overly excited. Temper it a bit and you come across much more alpha.

You can't worry about her not texting back. There are a million possibilities as to why and judging by the information you've given us, you've done nothing wrong. So if this is really all that happened, I'd just say she's a little nutty. What do you think? Have you left anything out of the story or did she just randomly decide to not text you?

Any response yet?
Author:  MrPopper [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
Thanks for the reply. Nah, I didn't leave anything out. If I left something out I would have left out the text. I typed it verbatim. I read some lit on how to text girls better on the Girls Chase website which seems like good info for me in the future. Haven't heard back from her yet. She typically replies pretty fast so I knew something was up then. You may be right, she may be a little nutty. In these situations I do like to find out what I did wrong though. And she was a fun, hot, cool chick. I'll see what happens but may need to ditch it and move on pretty soon. Do you think I should text back at some point or no?
Author:  RiRi [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 1:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
Don't text her. Get at some other women in your life and stop caring about the ones that wont respond, waste of time.
Author:  Krodhguru [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 9:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
Quote:
Hey guys,

I went out with this girl twice. Second time, she seems very interested. She leans into me during the date, good physical contact, also alludes to us going out again. Seems to really enjoy herself. We go to my place and make out, and she is very into it. I pull back a bit here and there and she leans into me and wants to continue. Felt her up a little. Eventually I push a bit she says she should to go home and laughs. Does not appear upset in any way, and seems happy. I walk her to her vehicle and we kiss a few times, again she is very into it. I pull back again after a couple of kisses and she leaned into me for few more. The next day, last night at 8 pm I send her the following text:

"Hey Emily! I enjoyed hanging out with you yesterday! :) Even if you were looking over at other girls haha! How was your day today?"

Explanation, she was checking out a girl's pants and staring as the girl walked by, and I teased her about it. She has not texted me back. She is normally very fast at texting and always has her phone with her. Other info, I met the girl online. I'm thinking that text was not the best one to send, but was it that bad?

What do you guys think? Should I wait a few days, or ask what's up, or forget about her? I'm confused as to why this suddenly went downhill after things were going so well.
Waiting is neediness! Asking is straight-forwardness, moving to next is MANLINESS my friend.
Unless your gut feels like you did wrong do not be into such doubts.

- Dive into the presence and gain your flow of extraversion
Author:  Crypto [ Wed Apr 17, 2013 4:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
You should have said "Yes you probably should go" but your actions should have said "We should totally fuck eachothers brains out". There are times that you should play off of a girls LMR, but from what you described above I dont think you were assertive enough. An Alpha, a Caveman would not back away from sex (I don't mean be needy and give power to her) when it is being served on a platter.

Think about it from the girls perspective for a minute. She said "I should go" (LMR so she does not look like a slut) and your words as well as your actions agreed with her. This could be perceived as beta, i.e. you not taking charge and leading the way. Many girls are freaks but wont show it outwardly unless you encourage them a little.

I may be off base here, but I wanted to add a different point of view.

If you dig the girl, don't hesitate to try and open her again with some kind of witty/funny text. If she is receptive arrange a meeting and escalate. If she blows you off, then you know to next her.


Peace...
Author:  DeathShredder23 [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl hasn't texted me back after second date
So what would you have done different then Crypto? And no, this isn't smartass, I'm just curious. Cause who knows, I can totally see something like this happening to me in the near future...

If she said, "I should probably go", would you say, "Yea you probably should" but keeping making out with her, and pull her in closer? Give us a step by step reenactment of how you would have done it. Thank you, sir.
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