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| Author: | SlapDaBass [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 3:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need your help guys!! |
Hey all, I'm just gonna cut to the chase, there's this girl I'm really into and I just need someones opinion on what the situation is and how to better improve it. I know her for some while (this dance thing I have with her twice a week) but started talking to her more just about 2-3 weeks ago. Whenever I text her she usually replies within 10 minutes and engages into the convo, it doesn't seem like she is trying to end the convo, as a matter of fact she will ask me questions (sometimes a completely random question from the topic we were currently talking about). So texting is great and all, I try not to text her every single day, so far it's been maybe every 2-3 days, and also she has never texted me first. Anyways, so now at this dance practice thingy I have twice a week, I see her there but I only get about maybe 5-10 mins to talk to her (during breaks). But what really kills me is stuff to talk about that can work on comfort building and getting to know her, also, she never came up to me and started talking, it's usually me engaging first, talking for maybe 2-3 mins, and then just cutting it short since I run out of interesting stuff to talk about. I plan on asking her out soon to a coffee or something like that (I already have once but she already had plans). So now the question just is, do I persist and keep on going (I think she is really cool) or just stop altogether or just slow down the pace. I appreciate any tips and comments guys, cheers! |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 7:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need your help guys!! |
Talk to other girls. Forget about her. Work on building solid game for yourself that way when the girl that actually DOES matter comes around, you are ready. Trying to focus all your attention will just keep you trying to dig yourself out of a hole. That's not what you want to practice. You want the whole "process" to be FLAWLESS... Focusing on trying to win that "one girl" will cause you to change your game completely based around her. There are 7 billion people on this planet bro. 3.5 million of them are female. Move on and if she comes back around one day, make your move. |
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