Ok.. here is the situation.. Tonight we went on a date, 3 men and 3 women.. There was one couple, and basically one guy (the obstacle) and me hadn’t already met the other 2 girls (like a blind date).. Moreover I didn’t know this man (the obstacle) very well.. So, as you can imagine we started playing on the same girl (the prettiest one).
After meeting the girls I almost immediately started with my game, talking a lot, using my DHVs (basically telling stories, speaking about situations in which I came up as a leader, and joking), and I monopolized the attention.. After a little time we went in a pub with live music.. I pretended not to be impressed by the 2 girls (actually they were a 6 and a 5.. I know it’s sheet, but it’s still valuable in order to improve my game).. So I listened to the music, telling some jokes once in a while and so on.. After a while I started with the first neg.
TheRocker: it’s a Rolling Stones’ cover song.. how is it possible that you don’t know it?!..
I guess it was a good neg, since they reacted pretending to know the following songs, so we started kidding about that and about the fact that they didn’t know anything about music.. So since I was leading the situation, suddenly the other guy began to try hard with the 6.. I tried not to mind about that and I continued my game speaking to the group, while he was only trying to speak with the 6..
So at last the 6 started going kino on me!
The 6 (holding my hand): what a nice bracelets.. I like these most.. but I don’t like this one!
Now here is my question for you guys: How do you think I had to react on that? I didn’t want to tell “don’t touch the merchandise” since I didn’t want to give her an IOD.. But I continued to act like I was not impressed by her..and I guess it did seem like an IOD as well..
After that the man offered to buy a drink to the girls.. I thought “perfect, he is killing his game”.. But the 6 refused any drink, and the 5 accepted but after he brought her a beer, she asked to pay for it.. The fact is: after this the obstacle continued trying hard, going kino on the 6, speaking only to her.. It started to seem that she liked to have all these attentions, and in a situation like this the 5 started to think that I was there for her (wtf!!)..
I continued speaking and telling jokes to the group and finally it ended to be a funny night, and everybody was telling lots of bullshits, with the obstacle always trying to speak only to the 6.. Finally of course she didn’t go with him, but I lost the possibility to play a good game with her.. and worse, everybody understood that the 5 wanted to go with me!!
So I don’t know how to behave now.. Should I start to contact the 6 on facebook, knowing that the obstacle will do the same for sure?? Or what d’you suggest me to do??
