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Author:  Hotxx [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:45 pm ]
Post subject:  good with talking to women, but suck at escalating things
I friendzone some women that I speak to when going to clubs because I really don't know how to escalate things into the kissing zone. If I can get to that part, I can work from there.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Mar 26, 2013 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
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I friendzone some women that I speak to when going to clubs because I really don't know how to escalate things into the kissing zone. If I can get to that part, I can work from there.

Start touching and learning how gauge your targets comfort levels and break through them.
Author:  Hotxx [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
I have no problem touching
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
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I have no problem touching
Kino is key to having sex. Well, comfort is the key to sex... but there is no better way to build comfort with someone than touching. Just keep escalating... This is kinda the order I follow when touching a girl to lead it to sex...

-Start with shoulder touches and arm touches (usually right away when I open the set... If not right away only a few minutes in)
-Then move to hand touches (playing little stupid games like patty cake and the slaps game you used to play in like 4th grade) This will give me the opportunity to kind of move her around the way I want and usually wind up in some sort of spin/dance routine where I can twirl her around and have her fall into my arms.
-In that position I'm enabled to "whisper sweet nothings into her ear" lol and once she lets me touch her face... I know I can kiss her. If a girl is comfortable with you touching her face, she will be comfortable kissing you. (Also, if she is positioned right against me like this, I can keep talking and making her laugh and my hands can get away with whatever they want because she is distracted by what I'm saying. Touching her arms, her hips, her stomach, etc. Don't get TOO sexual in a public place or you will trigger that dreaded "anti slut defense")
-Once you start kissing... it's really escalating as far as you can and then knowing when to pull off before she gets uncomfortable with what you are doing. Stop. and let her come back for more then go past it... Leading up until the moment she's ripping your clothes off and begging to get blown out like a flat tire lol

Hope this helps you out bro. Kinda hard to explain on a forum.
Author:  Finesse! [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 2:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
Kino, Kino, Kino... Just go for it, see how she reacts and if it's too forward then pull back a bit and try again. Even try to sexualise conversations. It's hard to get put in the friendzone when you got your hands all over them ;)
Author:  Hotxx [ Wed Mar 27, 2013 7:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
-Start with shoulder touches and arm touches (usually right away when I open the set... If not right away only a few minutes in)
-Then move to hand touches (playing little stupid games like patty cake and the slaps game you used to play in like 4th grade) This will give me the opportunity to kind of move her around the way I want and usually wind up in some sort of spin/dance routine where I can twirl her around and have her fall into my arms.
-In that position I'm enabled to "whisper sweet nothings into her ear" lol and once she lets me touch her face... I know I can kiss her. If a girl is comfortable with you touching her face, she will be comfortable kissing you. (Also, if she is positioned right against me like this, I can keep talking and making her laugh and my hands can get away with whatever they want because she is distracted by what I'm saying. Touching her arms, her hips, her stomach, etc. Don't get TOO sexual in a public place or you will trigger that dreaded "anti slut defense")
-Once you start kissing... it's really escalating as far as you can and then knowing when to pull off before she gets uncomfortable with what you are doing. Stop. and let her come back for more then go past it... Leading up until the moment she's ripping your clothes off and begging to get blown out like a flat tire lol



^^ -> I am in the rave scene, all of that shit is easy!
moving from the close part -> to kissing is my tough part!.
Like I can hang out with them easily and chill and ask one of them to be my cuddle buddies in rl. My problem is escalating it from there and how to get into the kiss!
Author:  7000 [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 2:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
If you've got kino down relatively well and the touching is fine, then basically it's about growing a pair and just going in for the kiss. There isn't going to be a perfect moment. The girl probably isn't going to say "kiss me now" and let you know. You don't go in for the kiss because you're worried that she will reject it.

So you either need to get better at reading signals she's giving off (look for IOIs, the usual touching hair, touching you back type stuff) and then man up and move in.
Author:  Steveo Supremeo [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: good with talking to women, but suck at escalating thing
Thats actually pretty good advice bro u put it pretty perfectly for saying it was hard to explain. I understood it perfectly..but i do have to add that if you dont think u can lay her that night..only kiss her when it comes to foreplay because 80 percent of the time if u try to hit her up later she will flake at least for a while your not out but its harder for sure
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