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| Author: | lidsfitteds [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping a conversation flowing/eye contact? |
I know eye contact and keeping the conversation flowing and fun is important, but what about pauses in the conversation. Lets say you're running out of things to say how long is to long for the conversation to pause? And when the conversation does pause (if its more than a few seconds) are you supposed/allowed to look away or do you keep staring (It seems like it would be pretty awkward to stare for more than a few seconds if the conversation isn't flowing. Or would it make her find a way to continue the conversation to escape awkwardness? Which seems like a good idea <putting the pressure on her to keep the convo flowing, but aren't you supposed to keep the conversation light and fun for both people?>) Also, if you're sarging in the day and you're a foot away from the girl, and you've used some kino, but fairly casual kino, do you continue to stare at her eyes the whole time or is it okay to look away for a few seconds? Lastly, whats the longest you can look away in a conversation? |
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| Author: | officialpoypoy [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:00 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a conversation flowing/eye contact? |
use pauses to your advantage. I noticed that many good convos arent all non stop talking, theres always a pause in good convos it cant be helped. what can u do with pauses? you could make it a sexual moment lol I had a silence once, and all i did was look at her in the eye and point at her face and smile and tell her she looks fuckin fantastic jk I laughed uncontrollably and shes like wuut and smiling too. its only awkward if you let it. if u think its awkward it shows in you and law of transfer goes to her and she feels it too, which is why you should not see it as something bad or awkward or confusing. honestly i talk to students, Im a senior peer tutor for art and theres always this guy who would talk to me NONSTOP and WOULD NOT FUCKING STOP TALKING SHIT THIS GUY IS SOOOO FUCKINGANNOYING |
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| Author: | StinkyApple [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 8:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Keeping a conversation flowing/eye contact? |
You run out of things to say, because you are scripted. And a short pause is actually, a very powerfull tool, IF you use to your advantage, she wont even feel any ackward moments. Just have few things to speak about, and say whatever that comes in to your mind. That could be her dress, the area, people around you etc. |
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