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Me: That drug induced group family text I initiated is the greatest thing ive ever done
Her: Hahaha amazing ideas often occur when ur fucked up
Her(15 mins later): How r u spending your Tuesday night? THIS IS WHEN SHE WANTED TO GO OUT WITH YOU
Now, doesn't this imply she wants to see me?YEA NO SHIT That's what I thought, but I guess I was wrong.No you were wrong to think a lady is supposed to escalate...
Me: I just got home from the gym. You?She asks you wht ur doing tuesday night...and u switch to the dam gym?...Anyone care about the gym??...I don't work out, am lean, and still do perfectly fine...myb u wantd to show u were working on urself and that ur a self-improvement kinda guy..but this isn't the time to have done so
Her: Same got home a little while ago ....now ur basically getting her "by force" to tell u intel about her life...=BAD...she should be bringing it up on her own
I'm surprised she didnt say something like come over or wanna hang out so..U are supposed to escalate...she doesnt wanna look like a slut for asking u to come over, so you can cum all over her.
Me: Wanna hang?
Her: I'm so lazy I'm already in bed trying to finish my 500 page book THIS IS WHERE you shouldv gone and said something like "Oh wow, yea that does take a lot of hard work, but I think to reward you and your dedication, you definately need to get out of the house a little...I know this great plc x...I want you to try their new dessert and Id like the company." OR ANYTHING tht wouldv made her want to come/rewarded her for her dedication...(always reward for what othr guys don't reward...don't reward on looks btw.
Her (3 mins later): I'm lame I know not as lame as the "Wanna hang", text the guy sent first... think of it this way...IF YOU are ever going to text a girl, or call on the phone, or speak in person...MAKE sure that before you say it, you run it through your head as to wht reply you would giv if someone said that to you...why? This helps you instill outcomes.... "wanna hang"...is "lame".... thats an easy YES or NO answerable question...and tbh you got the skweeky NO...meaning she still gave u leg room to escalate but....
Me(10 mins later): No worries have a a good night....No worries?...have a good night?? tell me how owuld you reply to that?....thas the thing you probably wont and if u did itd b a shitty reply that adds no value...ALWAYS add value to ur texts...What I said in bold...is gold, because I know for a fact you are not the only one making some stupid simple mistakes like the abov iv mentioned...take notes on the abv for as short as it may seem...it COVERS MANY aspects of text gaming...and when it comes to txt gaming, I know what I'm talking about
the fact that she replies...waits for u to reply (and then u dont)..and then she few minutes later replies...shows u still hold her interest...Her: Hahaha amazing ideas often occur when ur fucked up
Her(15 mins later): How r u spending your Tuesday night? THIS IS WHEN SHE WANTED TO GO OUT WITH YOU
Now, doesn't this imply she wants to see me?YEA NO SHIT That's what I thought, but I guess I was wrong.No you were wrong to think a lady is supposed to escalate...
Me: I just got home from the gym. You?She asks you wht ur doing tuesday night...and u switch to the dam gym?...Anyone care about the gym??...I don't work out, am lean, and still do perfectly fine...myb u wantd to show u were working on urself and that ur a self-improvement kinda guy..but this isn't the time to have done so
Her: Same got home a little while ago ....now ur basically getting her "by force" to tell u intel about her life...=BAD...she should be bringing it up on her own
I'm surprised she didnt say something like come over or wanna hang out so..U are supposed to escalate...she doesnt wanna look like a slut for asking u to come over, so you can cum all over her.
Me: Wanna hang?
Her: I'm so lazy I'm already in bed trying to finish my 500 page book THIS IS WHERE you shouldv gone and said something like "Oh wow, yea that does take a lot of hard work, but I think to reward you and your dedication, you definately need to get out of the house a little...I know this great plc x...I want you to try their new dessert and Id like the company." OR ANYTHING tht wouldv made her want to come/rewarded her for her dedication...(always reward for what othr guys don't reward...don't reward on looks btw.
Her (3 mins later): I'm lame I know not as lame as the "Wanna hang", text the guy sent first... think of it this way...IF YOU are ever going to text a girl, or call on the phone, or speak in person...MAKE sure that before you say it, you run it through your head as to wht reply you would giv if someone said that to you...why? This helps you instill outcomes.... "wanna hang"...is "lame".... thats an easy YES or NO answerable question...and tbh you got the skweeky NO...meaning she still gave u leg room to escalate but....
Me(10 mins later): No worries have a a good night....No worries?...have a good night?? tell me how owuld you reply to that?....thas the thing you probably wont and if u did itd b a shitty reply that adds no value...ALWAYS add value to ur texts...What I said in bold...is gold, because I know for a fact you are not the only one making some stupid simple mistakes like the abov iv mentioned...take notes on the abv for as short as it may seem...it COVERS MANY aspects of text gaming...and when it comes to txt gaming, I know what I'm talking about
but your being a fucking lil 10 year old that still thinks girls dont want to have sex with guys...and think that she should be escalating...
LET ME TELL YOU THIS.... GUYS ARE THE ONES TO ESCALATE...MEANING SHE GAVE YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO SOMETHING WITH HER...AND U DID NOT TAKE IT!
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You asked if you were "Too Harsh" ??? Harsh about what"??? U said nothing insulting... THAS IT...if you say something insulting ...meaning you FAILED at negging her....ANY level of harshness is BAD...so bf you speak make sure you know what kind of replies she should give....
HENCE...the reason you write more in texts like I gave as an example above is bc you play around with her head...u make her think of x...tell how fun x is, describe x...then ask her to meet you for x.... if you can link having fun doing x with you...to asking her to do x with u...you are set... always offr a lady fun, adventure and something different that othrs cant quite offr her...or at least describe it in a way othrs dont
....Text message her ASAP when u read this if u hanvt and reply to the extent that I gave as an example abov...and u know wht...if shes interested she'll take u up on ur offr...thats whr u get kino, ESCALATE change venues and fuck her.
GL.