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Author:  Rubyred [ Mon Mar 11, 2013 8:38 am ]
Post subject:  Convo gone cold after attempted # close. What do?

Hey all,
Basically a newb. Every now and again I jump on one of those location-based dating type apps and try my hand at a few openers. Never really devoted much time to it. Never really got much return. Not surprising.

Anyway, I ended up chatting with this chick. She seemed pretty receptive. Wrote back quick, seemed keen. Went for a # close and she's just giving me the silent SPAM. I know she's read the message because it notifies you of that, but no response. I was just after some advice on how to proceed?

Conversation below...

Me — 04:23 PM
Hey there. I'd add you on kik but I don't have it. Is it worth getting it? (her profile just asked people to add her on kik)
Her — 04:24 PM
Hi probly not really lol just a text thing lol
Me — 04:26 PM
Oh I know what it is, I'm not *that* old. Makin me feel like a grandpa!
Her — 04:26 PM
Lol why u ask if it worth getting then??
Me — 04:29 PM
I don't use it. I just know of it. Thought I might be missing something amazing.
Her — 04:30 PM
Ah k lol
Me — 04:31 PM
Anyway why are we talking about a chat client? Why'd you even bring it up?
Her — 04:33 PM
Lol I'm (name) by the way
Me — 04:34 PM
(My name). How's your long weekend been (name)?
Her — 04:34 PM
Great!! Beach everyday. Yours?
Me — 04:35 PM
Beach! You lucky thing. The closest I got to a beach was a wading pool at a tropical themed house party.
Me — 04:35 PM
But I maintain I rocked that Hawaiian shirt like an absolute boss.
Her — 04:36 PM
Lol nice where u live?? Wat u do
Me — 04:38 PM
Ahh so many questions! One at a time please. I live in (suburb).
Me — 04:38 PM
Wbu?
Her — 04:39 PM
(her suburb – close by)
Me — 04:39 PM
Eyyy taco bill! (there's a taco bill in that suburb)
Me — 04:40 PM
showing all my class.
Her — 04:40 PM
Lol I been there!
Me — 04:42 PM
So what do you do (name)? Aside from go to Taco Bill for their cheap margs.
Her — 04:43 PM
Lol nm. just finished high skool.
Me — 04:45 PM
Ooo I feel like a bad person now!
Her — 04:45 PM
Lol fair enuff
Me — 04:47 PM
Doesn't weird you out? I suppose I'm only at uni..
Her — 04:47 PM
Sounds bad but I luv
Her — 04:47 PM
Olda guys bad lol
Me — 04:48 PM
Me — 04:51 PM
Well look (name), on the one hand you're a little younger than I expected...on the other you like older guys. And I feel like we're getting along. Can I ask one serious question though?
Her — 04:51 PM
Yeh anything
Me — 04:51 PM
It'll basically decide where this goes. It's pretty important. A bit of a deal breaker for me. You ready?
Her — 04:52 PM
Yep
Me — 04:52 PM
You sure?
Her — 04:53 PM
Yeah
Me — 04:53 PM
Do you like being big spoon or little spoon?
Her — 04:54 PM
Little spoon!!!
Me — 04:55 PM
Hahaha. Nice choice, nice choice.
Her — 04:55 PM
What u prefer being
Me — 04:55 PM
Neither. I sleep alone.
Me — 04:56 PM
Kidding! I love cuddles.
Me — 04:56 PM
But in a really manly way. Grr. Cuddles. Rarr.
Her — 04:57 PM
Lol!!! Only thing bout being little spoon is sumtimes I been wif a guy n wake up wif sumthing poking into my back lol
Me — 04:59 PM
Hahaha. Well we hate talking about our feelings...we prefer to show you!
Her — 05:05 PM
Lol!!!!
Me — 05:09 PM
So older guys huh? Prefer someone a bit wordly wise? :p
Her — 05:09 PM
Yeh n olda guys r hotta
Me — 05:10 PM
Yeah we're all muscles n' stubble XD
Me — 05:16 PM
Speaking of muscles I've gotta go actually. Want to squeeze a workout in before dinner. But you're fun I'd like to keep chatting later - let's swap numbers?

Any and all advice appreciated.

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