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Author:  Logicfiles [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 1:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Having problems with a cougar .

So i met ths cougar thru a friend and we hook and we startd seeing each other but then she startd saying we couldnt walk anywher together as she is afraid of her reputation when people findout.so i just had to go to her house(she lives alone wit a 4yr kid)ǐu

Author:  Logicfiles [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 1:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

some Text is missing so ama continue : but at her house she started feeling uncomfortable 2 and said i couldnt bang her for fear of her reputation again,although we hav had hot kissng sessions n phonesex.so how do i wipe her fear n bang her?am 19 n shez 27

Author:  lowkouki [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 6:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

I don't think she's considered a cougar.

Maybe I'm wrong but I think cougars are like, late 30s and onward.

The whole idea of cougar, I guess, is an older person seeing a younger person. So in your case, she's a cougar? But I thought cougars are basically milfs.

I was in sorta the same situation. I was 23 and she was 34. We "banged" (bareback) for days until she became too needy. She wanted a baby and it's been only 2 months. Fortunately, she didn't get prego. Haha off topic sorry.

Seduce her. In my eyes, she wants to but she is not allowing herself in fear of shame. Make her feel secure that no one would know.

Author:  _EXPRESS_ [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 8:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

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I don't think she's considered a cougar.

Maybe I'm wrong but I think cougars are like, late 30s and onward.

The whole idea of cougar, I guess, is an older person seeing a younger person. So in your case, she's a cougar? But I thought cougars are basically milfs.

I was in sorta the same situation. I was 23 and she was 34. We "banged" (bareback) for days until she became too needy. She wanted a baby and it's been only 2 months. Fortunately, she didn't get prego. Haha off topic sorry.

Seduce her. In my eyes, she wants to but she is not allowing herself in fear of shame. Make her feel secure that no one would know.

If she's 27, she's not a cougar, she's a milf. Cougars are classified as middle aged mature woman.

In this situation I would agree that you need to seduce her. Puts some space between yourself and her and make her feel like shes missing out. Challenge her mentally, neg her, and tease her...sexually.

I've had my fair share for milfs/cougars. I've noticed, if you use cat string theory, they'll come to you and want you.

Example: (This was a 29yr old woman w/ a 7yr old boy)

One Thursday night I decided to go out and my first stop was a local wine bar/restaurant by my place. My brother is the bartender there, so I already have great social proof in that spot. Anyhow, I arrived around 10:30 and the place was pretty dead; with the exception of some regs(All Men) that I've previously met and a couple tables having dinner. After seeing how dead the place was, I decided I was going to have a drink and then head to another target friendly spot.

While I was having a glass of wine, this solo HB9 walked into the bar, walks to the side of the bar where the locals are sitting(I was about 3-4 stools away, solo)and is immediately greeted by all the locals. It was like seeing a bunch of lions eyeing their prey. They were all over her, complementing her, putting her on a pedal stool, it kinda made me sick, but I figured I could use this to my advantage.

I didn't bother paying any attention to her and tried never to face her while i engaged in convo with the social circle she was in. After some time, by brother asked her if she had met me.(Winging) When the time came were we had an formal introduction I look right into her eyes, said hello, and kept eye contact while we shook hands.(It was a timely handshake which was meant to let her know there was some chemistry)

After we met, I continued talking to one of the other guys in the social group. She tried butting into the convo, but I kept my attention on the guy who was speaking. When there was a pause in the convo, I turned towards her, and said she was quite rude for trying to butt in to the convo.(I smiled after I said this) When she was about to reply, I cut her off and and said:

"Are your eyes hazel?" (The rest of the group heard me say this as I said it pretty loud).

There was a moment of silence before she replied: "OMG, Yes they are! I'm surprised you can see them!?"(The Wine bar is pretty dark, but I knew from when we locked eyes from the introduction)

I replied: "Yeaah...You should cut down on the eye shadow though, they might be easier to see. Think about going with the natural look too, I think it fits you better."

Her mouth dropped, she was stunned, while the rest of the crowd busted out laughing. After that, she came to me, took a seat, and it was on. We started talking, shared a bottle of wine, and the rest was pretty standard. After 3 hours of conversing, drinking, flirting, we went back to my place and that was that.

Conclusion: I hope this gives you some idea of how to approach this milf you are trying to fclose. Since you already know her, you are at an advantage. Just create some space, go out somewhere, and seduce her. Make her want you, not the other way around(Even-though u do want her). Hope this helps! Good luck!

-EXPRESS-

Author:  Logicfiles [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

Thanx guys(am using a phone i cnt type much) i think i cameout too strong and needy,she always ask direct thngs to see my interest level and make me compliment her,she once asked me if i love her,like a dick i said yes:( she looked alarmed and said..

Author:  Logicfiles [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

She said.. 'that was too fast..way too fast' and always asks me if i mis her and since its only me goin to her house its self evident.now apart frm cuttin visits wat should i do to up her interest again?

Author:  _EXPRESS_ [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 11:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

I had another successful night. Same situation, wine bar, 28yr HB9. She was a little more challenging, but was able to seal the deal. I'll fill you in tomorrow. Hope you've made some progress.

-EXPRESS-

Author:  Logicfiles [ Sun Mar 03, 2013 4:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Having problems with a cougar .

Ya i made progress..i ate her out then FUKKED her lastnight aftr ignoring her 4 a while then runnin the 'atleast we can be friends'pattern.shes nw swit as jelly:) tel me about your HB..

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