| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| When should have I asked for her number? https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=134&t=156255 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | eliteplague [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 1:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | When should have I asked for her number? |
So here's what happened, I have a class back to back. The first class is at 5:30 and today it go cancelled, there is HB 9 who has the same class back to back. So when we find out it has been cancelled, I decided to stay in the room and sit in my seat while while waiting for my next class to start. About 2 minutes of sitting, she comes to sit next to me, and we basically talk and laugh for like an hour before our next class started. After that she moved back to her original seat. But my problem is during this whole time I didn't when to ask for her number or how to ask for her number without. I'm such an idiot. |
|
| Author: | wingintyme [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Quote: So here's what happened, I have a class back to back. The first class is at 5:30 and today it go cancelled, there is HB 9 who has the same class back to back. So when we find out it has been cancelled, I decided to stay in the room and sit in my seat while while waiting for my next class to start. About 2 minutes of sitting, she comes to sit next to me, and we basically talk and laugh for like an hour before our next class started. After that she moved back to her original seat. But my problem is during this whole time I didn't when to ask for her number or how to ask for her number without. I'm such an idiot.
I would have to know more about this 1 hour conversation to give good advice but based on what you posted, when she said "i'm going to my seat", act like you are semi interested in her and say " alright, let me get your number and I will text you later"If she did not give warning she was getting up before she did, it may be more of an issue to solve. |
|
| Author: | eliteplague [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 4:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Quote: Quote: So here's what happened, I have a class back to back. The first class is at 5:30 and today it go cancelled, there is HB 9 who has the same class back to back. So when we find out it has been cancelled, I decided to stay in the room and sit in my seat while while waiting for my next class to start. About 2 minutes of sitting, she comes to sit next to me, and we basically talk and laugh for like an hour before our next class started. After that she moved back to her original seat. But my problem is during this whole time I didn't when to ask for her number or how to ask for her number without. I'm such an idiot.
I would have to know more about this 1 hour conversation to give good advice but based on what you posted, when she said "i'm going to my seat", act like you are semi interested in her and say " alright, let me get your number and I will text you later"If she did not give warning she was getting up before she did, it may be more of an issue to solve. But the 1 hour conversation was very general, we talked about many different things. |
|
| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 12:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
There's never a good time "ask" for her number. But any time is good when it comes to getting her number. Say something like "You seem really cool, I wanna get your number before we leave class today." She'll normally be like "Oh...yea, okay." and then you just keep talking to her. Then later on you pull out your phone and tell her you are going to put her number in it. |
|
| Author: | Silver007A [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
You could have tried bailing on her first before she got the opportunity to do it to you. Then as you were going push the phone right to her solar plexus and state give me your number along with some other comment relevant to your conversation. If you had a really cool reason to leave and show her that she's not that important to you it sets you above her. Sitting there for 1 hour may have seemed a bit dependant especially if you weren't escalating or keeping control. |
|
| Author: | theReal [ Wed Feb 06, 2013 2:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Theres not really enough information to be able to tell what the situation is like. It seems to me that her getting up without notice could mean: - She's playing hard to get, and wanted to mind fuck you by going back to her seat without notice (which she successfully did) - She's just very friendly and you didn't show enough interest and she didn't even see it as any more than just a friendly conversation with a peer. I'm not sure which one it may be, but even if she is interested, it could be the second scenario. What was the conversation like? Was there a lot of flirting, or was it just general school talk? |
|
| Author: | eliteplague [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 1:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
I am just going to give up on her. She never ever even gives me eye contact. Like today when she entered the class room and walked right near my desk where I was sitting, she didn't even bother to look. I was going to say hi had her eyes met mine, but it seems she isn't interested, even though I made her laugh so much when she came over and sat next to me. Oh well. |
|
| Author: | wingintyme [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 2:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Quote: I am just going to give up on her. She never ever even gives me eye contact. Like today when she entered the class room and walked right near my desk where I was sitting, she didn't even bother to look. I was going to say hi had her eyes met mine, but it seems she isn't interested, even though I made her laugh so much when she came over and sat next to me.
I wouldn't necessarily give up on someone you have a class with. It seems like maybe when you first met and talked for an hour, she viewed you as harmless and not necessarily mate potential. But, if she sat by you for an hour and talked with no one else there (which seems extremely bizarre) you can still probably get in her head a little bit. Keep in mind, I don't have 90% of the info I need to give you my best advice such as, how far apart were you, why were you in one empty class for an hour, what all was said in this hour convo etc
Oh well. |
|
| Author: | DeathShredder23 [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Next time that happens just go for the number. Like ninja said, there is no "right" time to ask for it. If you feel that "its on" between you two, then that's when you ask for it. In a casual, laid back manner. Thing with me is though, I don't like to "ask" if I don't have too. I'd just say something instead like, "Idk why we've never talked before. We should text." Or, "You seem kinda cool. Put your number in my phone." Or just go with the classic, "We'll talk later. Give me your number, and I'll give you mine." Now If had known that there was going to be an hour before the next class started, and she sat down next to me and we started talking, and I had that girl laughing, I would have tried to pull the number after 20-30 minutes. The reason being is that school is a very social environment, and that can work very well in your favor, but it can also produce some unexpected surprises. Like, if one of her friends were to come in and bogart the conversation, or if some dude that she's really attracted to came in. Then you're fucked, cause her attention is now gone. The bonus of getting the number earlier too is that pickup is pickup. It doesn't matter when or where. So if you can get the phone number, and still have fun for a little bit before you and her go your separate ways, then it'll look like your connection was a bit more genuine. Like you weren't just talking with her for the number. This applies in any environment, as previously stated. Good luck man, and don't give up yet. Keep us posted. |
|
| Author: | MavenPhaseshift [ Fri Feb 08, 2013 6:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Some good information here, I do it a different way. What I do is based off an idea i heard about a while ago. Basically the only way to get some one to do something is to get them to want to. What are you offering? If your waiting for a moment when it is on your going to only be offering yourself. She may go for it she may not. instead what I do is I get her laughing and having fun. it doesn't matter if 30 seconds or 5 minnutes or 2 hours in. if she is having fun and a good time with me i say, you seem cool tell you what, put your number in and we are going to hang out/ go to a party ect. it doesn't really matter the point is that she is having value given to her in a strong amount. then after I get the number I make sure it is solid by staying in set and working more on her liking me more and more. Yes I do attraction all the way through. Not just after the number. To me the number is a hurdle that I have to cross. Not an end result. I want to bring her home get her on the date. I need her info usually to do that. i try to get it out of the way as fast as possible by giving her positive emotions and something she wants to do. then progressing to next hurdle. |
|
| Author: | b1sgas [ Sun Feb 10, 2013 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
Man I always use the same "line", it is a mystery technique. U got one hour of convo, just start a new topic, asking if she is creative, give her a peace of paper and tell her to write something creative. Mostly they don't get it... so u ask if she need a help, don't wait for the answer just grab the paper and write dashes (in my country a phone number have 9 dashes), and while u write, just say "dash dash dash, dash dash dash, dash dash dash!", it is not mandatory but it is funny and she will laugh. Then just put it inside your book and tell her that u will text her later, be funny like: "I will text you later but don't give my number to your mom, she will not stop texting me!" |
|
| Author: | Silver007A [ Sun Feb 10, 2013 6:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When should have I asked for her number? |
I guess it depends on his status he has in her eyes as well. Maybe you need to do some ground work on building up your credibility and status value first. It's not like you don't have time to work on her if she is that hot and interesting. Or are there other girls you could put your attention too? |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|