You said:
"Hello thanks for taking time to read.
I've been with this chick who have been my friend for a while. She kinda know lots of my secrets and we just texted. We dont meet up much.
One day she texted me out for coffee and I agreed. She brought me around and then to a secluded spot where we both started making out. Is that counted as a fling? Can I progress from here or is it just friend?"
What I think:
You're over the hard question of is she attracted to you or not. It's obvious she is.
We like respect from a man but we also like a bit of confidence where you lead. So be decisive, make decisions, don't be a bully...but from what I'm reading, she did the leading, don't let this be a habit.
Now that said, the only question left for you, is, do you want to be more with her or do you want to just be friends? If so, you've already made out, just continue it, if that's what you'd like to do
