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| Author: | MrHue26 [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 11:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to do with sketchy girl |
About a week ago I asked out a girl that, at the time I worked with (Yesterday the place where my job was closed down) out. It was a Saturday, and she said she had an obligation to a friend, but she would go out Sunday with me. She seemed genuinely interested in going out, and had been giving me IoI's of interest for the two weeks that she had worked with me. Sunday I texted her, but she said she forgot she made a promise to a friend and couldn't go out. I let it go for a week until yesterday (Saturday.) Yesterday, we talked for awhile and I basically asked her why she didn't want to go out all of a sudden. She admitted to seeing a guy, but that it wasn't serious, although they'd been going out for over six months, an even though it was not serious, she probably shouldn't be seeing other guys. She still seemed really interested in going out, but as we were talking, my boss basically pushed her out of the store. After she got pushed out she peeked back in and said she wanted to stay in touch, and wanted to text me, but then she left before my psycho boss would yell at her for being in the store after being walked out. I have texted her,and tried to make light conversation, which she was going along with, but also dropping hints that she was "conflicted" about talking to me. The conversation dropped off last night. I sent the last text, which she never replied to. I can tell she likes me a lot, but she is having some more dilemma about the guy. It seems to me that if she actually liked the guy, she would have never given me her number, or asked to "stay in touch" in the first place. I am wondering what strategy I should use. Should I keep trying to make conversation (which is something that I hate through texting), confront her about the boyfriend, since she was "not serious with him" and she has shown some kind of interest or just not contact her at all, unless she contacts me? |
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| Author: | jamesd31 [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do with sketchy girl |
I say do not text her constantly, especially if she seems to be slow at the replies, even if she does show IOI's. If this wasn't "serious" she wouldn't be seeing this guy for the past 6 months. Show a little less interest, let her come to you and beg for the attention you were giving her back. Try some freezing out methods and see if that helps a bit - don't talk to her for a while, see how long it takes for her to "miss" you. |
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