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| Author: | Eerie [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I've been texting this girl for about a week. We have hung out two times after we first met. On both occasions we made out. It was really good she was very into it and she was as good of a kisser as I am. Lots of kino both times. She has yet to not respond to a text.....until now. We have tentative plans to hang out tonight. Here's what happened: After texting last night I went to bed without saying goodbye. She texted me at 1am. (She had been out drinking). She asked me how my night was assuming I went mech bull riding which she knows I've done on Saturdays. I woke up in the morning and texted her "good morning beautiful". (I never get cutesy with her. This is probably the first time I've done it with her.) then she didn't answer I assumed she was still sleeping. I texted her later saying I didn't ride the bull because I was at my parents house followed by a text asking how her night was and how her hangover was feeling. She has yet to respond a few hours later. This was in the morning and its now 2pm. Should I call her to confirm our plans tonight? What step can I take? |
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| Author: | jamesd31 [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I would wait a bit, also do not text her too much. You have only been talking for a week - do not overwhelm her with your texts and to assume things. imo, my sunday's seem to be my hangover recovery days, at which I do not wake up until around 2pm, so give her time. I would text her 2 hours or so prior to your date to verify things though. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I gave it a few hours. I called her to see about our hangout date that night she didntj pick up so i texted her asking about the date when she finally responded with a flake. Gave an excuse about bringing books to her brother at college. I said its not a big deal I had friends asking me to hangout anyways. She asked if we could reschedule so I said we can do something Monday or Tuesday. She said ok and she was sorry so I said Don't feel bad it's ok. I found a great place for us to go to and asked if she wanted to do it tomorrow. She didn't respond. Gave it a few more hours then tried opening small talk light humor. She didn't respond to that. I'll wait till after five pm to text her again. |
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| Author: | SeanNT [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I think you're sending her way too many text without her responding. If she doesn't respond then give her a few days until you try again, not a couple hours. Her not texting you is bad behavior, dont reward it by showing more interest |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 6:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I hate these random periods of being ignored. It felt like things were going so well. And it's frustrating because idk what I did wrong. I'm going to simply stop texting her until she feels the need to text me. From my experience, when this happens its over. I don't think she will ever get back to me again. |
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| Author: | shakalicious [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 12:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
i'm sort of new here, but i've experienced this a lot in the past. i agree with what everyone is saying -- you are texting her waaaaay too much. my general rule of thumb is if she doesn't respond after 2 consecutive texts from me, i stop all communications. in the case of flaky girls, treat a 'planned' outing with her as an option. in other words it's something for you to possibly do that day, and not something you are hanging your hopes on and spend all weekend anticipating. i actually use this mindset on all initial outings. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 1:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
So it's been a whole day. I haven't texted her once and she hasn't texted me back. What's my next step? Go a second day? Forget her completely? |
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| Author: | jamesd31 [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 2:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
Freeze her out, that means cut off all attempts to contact her until she contacts you back. At which she does, than just be very light with the convo - do not try to make another date, just be quick on the answers to her question. Time for you to go out sarging and replace her. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Tue Jan 29, 2013 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
I need a wing who knows somewhat what he's doing. I have nobody to sarge with. Is just me. Where can I go by myself? Another thing is that I'm not looking to just get numbers. I not even looking to just bang random girls. I'm looking to meet people that I can be close with for a while. I can hardly get past a week of texting. Getting numbers is easy as hell. |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
So I haven't texted her since Sunday. It's been two days and she has not initiated me. I'm guessing this is lost with her? Give up on this chick? |
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| Author: | ChrisGrimbles [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 3:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
Quote: So I haven't texted her since Sunday. It's been two days and she has not initiated me. I'm guessing this is lost with her? Give up on this chick?
I agree with all posters that you definitely went overboard on the texting without a response, and likely came across as needy. If your date was as good as you say, then it isn't necessarily fucked. But because the ball is in her court at the moment, you have to act indifferent to her existence and allow her to text you next.By the way, where you from? Looking for a wingman (Denver) haha |
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| Author: | Eerie [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She hasn't responded for the first time. |
Denver is a long way from Jersey lol |
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