I try to dhv with good stories and neg but i still don't build attraction. I get iois but they never seem attracted or chase me. I remember a time where I was really flirty and sexual with some girl from the beginning and then i started neging and push-pulling causing her to chase me. So should i show interest in her first then push her away or should i get her attracted to me first then qualify and seduce? If the second option, then what am i doing wrong