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Author:  Frankenztein [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 1:21 pm ]
Post subject:  She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
Hi,
I`m a noob. Please bear with me :lol:
I`ve been mailing with a cool, quite hot woman (30) on this dating site. After a couple of mails, we moved on to FB. She sent me her FB address after I suggested to have a drink. Nice communication, and I have kept my cool all the way. I chose a place and we settled on a date and time. She said she might have to work that night (she has a nightshift), but confirmed the day before.

On the day of the date she cancelled 3 hrs in advance. Had to work after all. She wrote that we had to do it some other time. (I think it`s true, cause I saw her being active on FB that night.)

Anyway, I replied: "No problem :) Just message me when you want to hook up."
She answered: "That`s great :) I will do that."
OK - that`s 5 days ago. Any chance she will text me again? Should I text her?
Any expeirenced opinion would be highly appreciated!
Author:  puaninja [ Tue Jan 15, 2013 2:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
Here's some real talk for you bro. Women assign very little value or priority to men they meet online. One reason is because there is an endless supply of men and there is this perception that there will always be someone better out there if they keep looking. They have no qualms flaking or cancelling dates because they don't feel etiquite or common courtesy is a requirement for online dating. They can talk to you for hours, act like they are interested and schedule a date, then the next minute flake on you and never answer your calls again. And you have no control or say in that matter.

I guarantee she won't text you again, so you can try to text her. But I doubt things will turn around for you. Typically once you lose them they are gone for good.
Author:  Robby [ Thu Jan 17, 2013 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
I doubt she'll call you out of nowhere, be a man and call her :wink:
Author:  officialpoypoy [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 8:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
iv tried online dating before, there are girls that are actually interested in you and show up and girls who talk to you and dont show up.

it could be just because shes lazy that day or shes busy or she doesnt like you.

I wudnt suggest meeting girls online cuz its just the poor mans way of getting a girl.
Author:  Jason. [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
i agree with ribby if you actually contact her, call her. no texts or fb messeges, in my opinion.

but i would suggest to just move to the next girl on the site. dont get too hanged up on this one
Author:  Undercontrol [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 9:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
I'm throwing my vote in for calling her.
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She cancelled first date. Legit reason. Help!
Most women expect the guy to chase and they will never contact you first... even if they say they will.

However.. I have a real problem with flakes. People who don't do what they say they will can't be trusted and don't really respect you very much. Its a sign of low interest when a woman doesn't try to "impress" you.

Also.. check out this page on the different types of flaky women and see if she fits any of them:

http://romancecheater.com/dealing-with-flakes/
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