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Author:  fitandalertbrain [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  How to continue please help
We went out for dinner on our second date and I kissed her right before we split.

Next day I get a text:
Her: Thanks for dinner & hanging out last night! :)
Me: I'm glad you liked it.
Me: You want to know something interesting that happened last night?
Her: What?
Her: Just gonna leave me hanging?
Me: I had an interesting date, she is **[redacted] yrs old, works as a teacher and it's cute how she wrinkles her nose when she laughs. We also started a little born-fire at the end.
Her: Really? Sounds very interesting...
[Next day]
Me: I'm having some free time tomorrow, I'm wondering if she has some time too.
Her: Tomorrow night I have a birthday dinner with friends & a dance so I'm already busy...sorry!
Me: that sounds like fun. Rain check?
Her: Absolutely! :) 11:25 AM
Me: great! think of a few things you might like to do and I'll get a hold of you later. In the mean time, have a good day!!
Her: I will, you too! :)

OK so I'm stuck, what should be my next move? She is exactly the girl I want. What do I say to her and how do I say to her exactly? Should I contact her on Friday afternoon?

Thank you
Author:  Robby [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 10:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue please help
Find a day you want to meet with her, call her and set up a date! she already likes you dud! it's supposed to be a bit awkward and that's your job as a man to pummel through that!
Author:  R.C [ Thu Jan 10, 2013 11:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue please help
Don't put too much emotion to it at first. The more emotion , the more awkwardness. It rarely matters what you say relatively to HOW you say it,thats what counts, the HOW not the WHAT. Always be fun. Don't over do it. You dont wanna look shallow , you just wanna be fun company.

About the emotion at first thing. I had a girl that I met at a party. We hit it off but all I got wasn't even a kiss , she basicly playfully bit my lip,once,that's it. Then , we started hanging out .She wouldn't kiss me for 1 week, an entire 7 days man. I always went for the kiss , and as you imagine I always felt awkward about it, cuz she always 'refused it'.

So , finally , at one point she's the one leaning in for the kiss and that's when I refused her. " What , now YOU want it ? no no , its not gonna be that easy after what you put ME through".

Obviously , I'm a man and my 'other head' takes over thinking and I caved the very next day and kissed her, so yeah.

Anyway,I'm telling you this because it might seem like an awkward story and all , but it really wasn't. As long as you can keep a cool / playful attitude and don't overthink it , nothing is really THAT awkward.
Author:  fitandalertbrain [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 9:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue please help
I still dont know what exactly to text her.
Author:  puaninja [ Fri Jan 11, 2013 5:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue please help
Ease up on the reins bro. Loosen your grip a little.
Author:  Swami [ Sat Jan 12, 2013 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to continue please help
Here's a good one: YOU plan a date and text her with specifics. E.g. she likes to hike, you plan a Sunday over at the local arboretum. Send her a text saying that you'll pick her up at 10am, wear comfortable waterproof shoes, a hat and dress in layers. Don't tell her anything else. If she's says she can't make it, just reply with something 5 hours later like: okay, ball's in your court then.

In other words, plan a cool sweep her off her feet, different than other dates she's been on, date. Tell her when and how to prepare. The mystery should hook her but if she really can't make it, make her sweat a smidgen then make her make it up to you.

Good luck!
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