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| Author: | OutOfMyCage [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Alright this is my first time posting on this forum, or on any PUA forums, I took a quick look at the rules and I don't think I'll be breaking any with this post, heres what happened to me on new years. I was chatting with this girl, flirting and whatnot, she actually started talking to me, and did most of the flirting, when it was time for me to NEG her she actually negged herself, she just said out of nowhere that she didn't have a nice ass, because this took me completely by surprise and all the alcohol I had taken I ruined it right after. this was my response and I know it was terrible Looked at her in the eyes, looked at her ass, took a sip of my drink, said yeah and changed the conversation. I know this was bad but I lost control there, what should have I said? |
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| Author: | Donny G [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
"Well, I wasn't going to say anything..." *Cheeky grin* Easy as that. |
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| Author: | midlif_crysus [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 4:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Wrong. Dont insult women like that. A neg is playful, not insulting. Shes probably subconcious about her ass and you reinforcing it will make her feel worse about herself and you. |
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| Author: | Donny G [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 5:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Quote: Wrong. Dont insult women like that.
Got to disagree here. You don't have to say it in a negative way. It is the way you say it that determines that you are joking. And if you kino after you say it, she will be able to determine that you are just teasing.A neg is playful, not insulting. Shes probably subconcious about her ass and you reinforcing it will make her feel worse about herself and you. Alternatively, you can just say something like "Yeah, and I am way too short" - which isn't true as I am 6'3. Or you could just give her some positive reinformcement and take it back with a neg. A girl earlier told me she needs to lose weight. I told her that she didn't, but she should probably focus on her hair style first. Like I said, it isn't what you say, it is how you say it... |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Gawd! I wish I had half the golden opportunities that you guys squander on a daily basis... Ok, you're at a party drinking with a girl and SHE starts talking about her ass. What I hear her say is "Please start touching and/or talking about my ass." You should've been like "Naaah...let me see here." then grabbed her and turned her ass towards you. Then tell her as long as it passes the firmness test it's a good ass....as you start touching it. Poke the side with a finger, then if she seems compliant, actually feel her buns with your whole hand. Don't be drooling or anything, just do it with sexual confidence. Then when you're done be like "Ok, and now for the boob test..." |
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| Author: | midlif_crysus [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 7:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Quote: Quote: Wrong. Dont insult women like that.
Got to disagree here. You don't have to say it in a negative way. It is the way you say it that determines that you are joking. And if you kino after you say it, she will be able to determine that you are just teasing.A neg is playful, not insulting. Shes probably subconcious about her ass and you reinforcing it will make her feel worse about herself and you. Alternatively, you can just say something like "Yeah, and I am way too short" - which isn't true as I am 6'3. Or you could just give her some positive reinformcement and take it back with a neg. A girl earlier told me she needs to lose weight. I told her that she didn't, but she should probably focus on her hair style first. Like I said, it isn't what you say, it is how you say it... Guys can take busting alot more. Better to say "That color does nothing for you" than to say "Your hips are to wide to worry about me grabbing them" "Just kidding" doesnt work, trust me... LOL |
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| Author: | ants3940 [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
she was fishing for compliments, it was almost like an inverted shit test. i think you handled it well. but what PUANINJA says is very true. it was probably a golden chance to kino her ass! literally. |
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| Author: | Don Horneone [ Wed Jan 02, 2013 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Quote: I was chatting with this girl, flirting and whatnot, she actually started talking to me, and did most of the flirting, when it was time for me to NEG her she actually negged herself
I don't think what you said was terrible, don't beat yourself up. I am intrigued though by your comment that it was "time" for you to neg her. What do you even mean by that? You've just said that she did most of the flirting so what made you decide it was "time" to neg her? You neg a girl to (in the nicest possible way) bring her down to your level. If she's already vying for your approval, what possible purpose does negging serve?
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| Author: | Cyanide7 [ Thu Jan 03, 2013 11:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
me personally i would have pointed at her as if about to tell her off then "OI! ill decide!" then a cheeky wink or some kino |
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| Author: | DeathShredder23 [ Sat Oct 26, 2013 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to say when a girl NEGS herself? |
Quote: Gawd! I wish I had half the golden opportunities that you guys squander on a daily basis...
Ok, you're at a party drinking with a girl and SHE starts talking about her ass. What I hear her say is "Please start touching and/or talking about my ass." You should've been like "Naaah...let me see here." then grabbed her and turned her ass towards you. Then tell her as long as it passes the firmness test it's a good ass....as you start touching it. Poke the side with a finger, then if she seems compliant, actually feel her buns with your whole hand. Don't be drooling or anything, just do it with sexual confidence. Then when you're done be like "Ok, and now for the boob test..." Thats what I was just about to recommend. ^^^ It's all about listening for sub-communication. If if all she wanted was some reassurance that her ass DID in fact look good, I would've validated her with my hands... |
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