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Author:  Ruii [ Sat Dec 22, 2012 1:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Man's weakness
Lets say you go along with a very beautiful girl, she finds you attractive, got her number, and then you made a mistake with getting her know you find her attractive (you verbalise it as a compliment, ect.).
You asked her for a drink before for a specific time (she says she will let you know if she comes into town), then you text (and do that mistake- chasing her). And then you dont talk for couple of days.
You talked just twice via txt and once on SPAM.

What is the best course of action after this? (drink should come next week)
a) Waiting for her to text you?
b) initating conversation again
c) other

How do you make her chase you?
Author:  Schweeps [ Sat Dec 22, 2012 2:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
I'm gonna explain it like this. Girls like to read guys as we like to read girls. If they can read you then what is the point for them to see you again. There isn't one. You see what I'm getting at... Basically you have to make it seem like you are a person that isn't affected by her approval or rejection. Go out to places take pictures update it on facebook be more social. Make it seem like you have a whole lot more to yourself then what she has read.. After that will she only chase you.
Author:  iamjstar [ Sat Dec 22, 2012 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Quote:
I'm gonna explain it like this. Girls like to read guys as we like to read girls. If they can read you then what is the point for them to see you again. There isn't one. You see what I'm getting at... Basically you have to make it seem like you are a person that isn't affected by her approval or rejection. Go out to places take pictures update it on facebook be more social. Make it seem like you have a whole lot more to yourself then what she has read.. After that will she only chase you.
That sounds pretty silly to be honest. IIRC then naturals rely on displaying their desire putting balls to the walls. Naturals don't seem to have any issue pulling so I assume letting a girl know you are attracted doesn't make too much difference.

@OP - I think you should wait for her to initiate a conversation. Obviously you shouldn't wait too long as to lose contact with her but don't make yourself look needy by texting her everyday. Try to set up d2 ASAP (when she initiates conversation). If not, you can just start a fresh convo after about a week.
Author:  Ruii [ Sat Dec 22, 2012 10:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Quote:
I think you should wait for her to initiate a conversation. Obviously you shouldn't wait too long as to lose contact with her but don't make yourself look needy by texting her everyday. Try to set up d2 ASAP (when she initiates conversation). If not, you can just start a fresh convo after about a week
If she does, i know where we are,if she doesnt, im planing to text her like you said after a week- i also had an idea of just sending her an empty sms and then after some time passes i might just call her.

Any good tips?

What really should not be done ?
Author:  mephislee [ Sun Dec 23, 2012 12:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Quote:
Any good tips?

What really should not be done ?
The most important aspect of this entire scenario was your first meeting with her. A girl will usually only

You are already doing what should "really not be done" and thats over analyzing. Sending an empty sms is pointless. Like iamjstar said, set up a d2, asap ,but make sure that when you contact her, whether its by text or calling, that your personality is expressed, so she remembers what a fun/attractive/confident guy you are.

She's more likely to meet up with you based on how she remembers you.The question you should ask yourself is "Did I make enough of an impact on her world the first time we met"

Ultimately, you cant control her response.Chick could simple flake because she just doesnt feel like meeting up with a guy, no matter how attractive. Don't over analyze, dont worry whether she flakes or not, have an abundant mindset and this attitude will be conveyed through your text/call.
Author:  Ruii [ Mon Dec 24, 2012 9:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Quote:
Ultimately, you cant control her response.Chick could simple flake because she just doesnt feel like meeting up with a guy, no matter how attractive. Don't over analyze, dont worry whether she flakes or not, have an abundant mindset and this attitude will be conveyed through your text/call.
Thank you for reminding me about this. :)
Author:  Evahgo [ Tue Dec 25, 2012 4:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
That sounds pretty silly to be honest. IIRC then naturals rely on displaying their desire putting balls to the walls. Naturals don't seem to have any issue pulling so I assume letting a girl know you are attracted doesn't make too much difference.

@OP - I think you should wait for her to initiate a conversation. Obviously you shouldn't wait too long as to lose contact with her but don't make yourself look needy by texting her everyday. Try to set up d2 ASAP (when she initiates conversation). If not, you can just start a fresh convo after about a week.[/quote]



There are a great many girls who "Want to play the game" as well. You need to read her as well and see what direction to take.
Author:  Schweeps [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
@iamjstar first of all dont judge anything unless you try it it may sound silly but i had no game and now i have developed perfectly natural game its advice that will help people so if you dont understand it thats another thing but since i have tried it and have pefected this. so unless you have done this dont judge it.
@ruii you're welcome
Author:  puaninja [ Wed Dec 26, 2012 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
I can already tell you she won't text you again. So you just have to wait and then start things up again with her and don't make reference to things in the past that you fucked up. Just start running new game on the girl after she's had enough time to forget about this recent stuff.
Author:  Ruii [ Sat Dec 29, 2012 12:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Quote:
I can already tell you she won't text you again. So you just have to wait and then start things up again with her and don't make reference to things in the past that you fucked up. Just start running new game on the girl after she's had enough time to forget about this recent stuff.
Like a month? how much time do you have in mind?
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Man's weakness
Yea, a month is good. Not too long, but long enough to matter.

Generally there is something going on in that girls life that she feels is more important than you. Like seeing another guy, exams, health issues, family issues, car trouble, etc. After a month that problem will usually have subsided and you won't have it as a background distraction any longer.
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