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Author:  v.y.b.e [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 2:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Club Game - What Should I Have Done?
(This was previously posted in 'Field Reports' but I think it's more appropriate here so I have deleted the original)

So I was out tonight and ended up making out with some chick.
My club game's not fantastic, I don't usually approach; somehow I just end up chatting to girls around the club or on the dancefloor.

Anyway, somehow I got chatting to a girl, ended up dancing with her and started making out with a her on the dancefloor. After a bit I suggested we went outside (trying to isolate her) and we made out for a while etc etc.
(Was doing a serious amount of kino, arms fully around her, pulling her in for kisses yadda yadda)

Then she noticed some of her friends outside and said she should probably go be with them for a bit and that she'd come back to kiss me later.
We then parted ways and I didn't see her the rest of the night.

What should I have done?
And at what point should I have done it?

Isolating her was good but I'm not sure where I went wrong from there.
When she mentioned seeing her friends should I have got her number?
Is there something I should have done that actually would have stopped her from going to find her friends?
If not, should I have tried to find her later?

(It didn't seem like I could have easily taken her away from the club; it was a house night where people are there for the music and leaving early isn't really an option!)

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Author:  Arellius [ Sat Nov 24, 2012 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Club Game - What Should I Have Done?
Hey there..

Indeed I think you should've said something along the lines of;
''Cool, you go be with your friends, lets exchange numbers, I might be heading out myself soon.''

Even after she's gone, you don't have to stop there you can even continue sarging :)

What I notice from your story is that maybe she even felt you were a little bit needy with your kino.
Even when you made out, it's all good, no need for hardcore kino just yet. A little bit of holding by the hips, a little spin so she has her back to you and you kiss her on the neck, more subtle stuff like that.

Remember, imo this was not an unsuccessful night. Maybe you don't consider your Night Game to be on point but you got some good kiss action ! Well done 8)
Author:  v.y.b.e [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Club Game - What Should I Have Done?
Quote:
What I notice from your story is that maybe she even felt you were a little bit needy with your kino.
Even when you made out, it's all good, no need for hardcore kino just yet. A little bit of holding by the hips, a little spin so she has her back to you and you kiss her on the neck, more subtle stuff like that.
The most recent thing I've been working on is kino so i'm sure if anything i could be over doing it when trying to compensate for the fact i didn't used to do it enough.

I think i need to remember to push/pull more so if heavily kino'ing i guess to counter it occasionally and be cold.
Or if physically warm, verbally cold.
Author:  PlanB [ Tue Nov 27, 2012 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Club Game - What Should I Have Done?
I would have certainly pushed for a number, you then continue to sarge and if you don't run into your girl again, send her a text about 1 hour later saying you are about to leave and want to a kiss goodbye.

If she was avoiding you (maybe you came on a little too much and her anti-slut defence kicked in?) she will hopefully see you talking to other girls and feel jealous. This is very good and hugely increases the chances that she will come back to you and then you can push for an F-close.
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