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Author:  skribble [ Thu Nov 22, 2012 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  why are you still single?

Have been asked this by 3 different girls in my uni class, 2 of them was definitely in the tone of "how can someone like you still be single", one im not so sure .... is this an IOI or just normal curiousity/friendzone shit?

Thanks

Author:  raii [ Thu Nov 22, 2012 7:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why are you still single?

Definitely a IoI sir.

Author:  worldrunner [ Fri Nov 23, 2012 9:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: why are you still single?

Answer: "well maybe is because girls like you are not confident enough to take advantage of a great opportunity when you see it. 8)"
And change topics...

Author:  pumpington [ Fri Nov 23, 2012 12:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why are you still single?

next time you hear those words, what you do, is you lead, don't sit back thinking

but WHAT DO I DO? is this this, is this that?

be the leader, you come up with what to do, you make your own descisions to benefit the people around you, use your own creativity and enginutity

don't just make ambiguous statements and expect her to take control and create the situation, step by step walk her through what you would like to accomplish, you make it happen, you make the descisions, she either wants to be lead because she sees a win/win situation just like you, or she doesn't, either way, doesn't matter, when YOU want to meet an objective, the fastest way to see if that objective can be met, is to get on top of it and move things towards meeting that objective, sitting back and woundering BUT CAN I ACCOMPLISH THIS OBJECTIVE CAUSE OF XYZ? noo.... that's won't accomplish anything, putting fourth action to work towards that objective will show you if you can reach your objective that you are leading towards

you can't read minds or predict the future, become aware of what YOU want, and stop focusing on what others are thinking or if they approve of you or not, just assume you are golden until proven otherwise

do YOU want to be single?

if the answer is no, then what is the first thing you will have to do in order to find a girl to hookup with?

obviously meet them, and what else?

ask some of these girls on dates...

so she says, why are you still single? CALL HER OUT

''you're right, we should fix this and go out together next week, you like blah blah blah? I know this awesome blah blah blah that does blah blah blah, it's totally amazing''

make it something that you both can enjoy, make every situation you create between you and a girl a WIN/WIN situation

it's that simple, solve your problems, find solutions and bring value to other people to help them to help you, everyone wins in the end

GOOD LUCK

Author:  Big Ern [ Sun Nov 25, 2012 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: why are you still single?

Great advice Pumpington ^^

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